Guyz, i feel higlighting the issue of men and adultery /hanyaring is a waste of time.Men have sexual appetittes the size of an elephants ass and with the benefit of history,guyz like king solomon had tens of concubines/wives.No offence to the almighty,but why are men always the likely one's to hanya inje??Maybe the society should leave and let men be.Myself i've stopped justifying my roving eyes...I JUST CANT HELP IT!!!DAMN ALL OF U...HERE I AM..I ADMIT IT...I CANT HELP THIS MALENESS IN ME..I GOTTA CHECK OUT THAT FINE CHICK PASSING BY...DEAR GOD..WHY DID U CREATE ME MALE???? Its the Economy..Stupid!!!!!

@DSKTOP i've made peace with my loins;made peace with my conscience;and finally with my wife..i told her it aint eazy being male and zero grazing..told her she woz free to leave if she wanted but a man will always be a man(wanting mo and mo and mo of skirtwearers).Guess what?she didnt leave...she is still around..only told me asinishike..and u know what Shaggy said!!!it tuff being a healthy male Its the Economy..Stupid!!!!!

Adultery is choice just like choosing between taking the lift or stairs. Bright and interesting people talk about ideas. Those of average intelligence talk about things. Stupid people talk about other people.

@Mwabili. it's a really sad thing you feel that helpless. it begs the question: who's in charge here? sometimes I wonder if its not too much trouble for some guys going for hanye - all for an orgasm that lasts less that 5 sec and leaves you feeling like s*** (unless of course you are the type that has completely smothered their conscience). besides the health risks involved,u have to panga time for different women,then have ready made lies all the time... oh boy,too much energy wasted. then what kind of interpersonal relationships do you build with all those women,not to mention your family. ama am missing something? is one orgasm different from another? Better to be at the cause of your experience rather than at the end of it. In all situations,be cause ...

Male species have that tendency and there's nothing to justify it. However what xtina said its true,ladies nowadays do know how to cheat as well. So guys better behave cause women do know when a man is cheating and woe to you if she decides to do likewise. Its not all men do cheat,we have the minority who are not driven by their loins. Remember guys if you must play,then play safe! so that you dont end up killing yourself and mamaa and live the family emotionally wrecked! and kids if any with alot of un answered questions Life is like an onion; you peel off one layer at a time and sometimes you weep. Carl Sandburg