You are adult and you are entitled to your own type of men that you admire and get attracted to.

However, no wonder we see so much bitterness in some posts we read from some of you ladies here in Wazua, loaded with bitterness out of disappointments from these players.

To me I think this guy is simply mean, proud and full of himself. No sane woman can tolarate him for more than 5 years. He does not have long term qualities, just fun-oriented.

If you want stability and marriage, then the following are the qualities of the man:
1. Fear of doing sin (fear of God in religious terminology)
- love of the truth, hatred of sin, willing to learn and change, honors his parents, hates false ways, humble, craves instruction, intolerant of sin, etc

2. Virtuous
- good character, good name (i.e. reputation), wonderful person, highly respected,

3. Gracious
- charming, pleasing, polite, kind, courtesy, thoughtful, discreet, gentle

4. Diligent
- Hard working, focused, accomplished, consistent

5. Faithful
- Responsible, committed, principled, dedicated, loyal, respects authority, punctual, disciplined,

6. Leader
- earns authority, confident, a role model, provides direction, decisive, responsible, strong

7. Financial
- Assets, good income potential, good credit, organized, solution provider, has a plan, skilled, has career options, contented

8. Attractive
- physically attractive to the beholder, physically fit to carry out marital duties (financial, leadership, bed etc)

I have never dated a player and do not intend to.God forbid.
As a matter of fact,I have dated one man in my life with no regrets whatsover.
so disregard any crazy comments I make at times.
I just love making fun and if I lash out,blame hormones.

He left a hole that cannot be filled? (PS: Hole in heart, si hiyo @impunity anafikiria)

crazy thread.off to kicc

Let's guide the thread back to its objective; to help a brother out.

First, it takes great courage for a brother to come out as honestly as this veteran has. Not everyone would want to lay bare for all, not even those with holier than thou attitudes around.

To understand and criticise, we have not all the possible information that would inform a balanced point of view. May be it has to do with childhood; like an abusive daddy or his absence. All am saying is, pushing away a brother and making fun of it is far from addressing the issue.

Where is wazua mum @wendz








This post marks my graduation from a Veteran to an Elder. 'Fountain of knowledge' will by my first name henceforth.