mkeiyd wrote:At what age do kids start "seeing" things? At what age do they take note of sexual encounters,between their parents?
Any expert in matters psychology in this wazua house?
I don't know what we are going to do.We cannot say okay since our kids are old enough to defend themselves from these rogue mayayas. Teenage is also another stressful phase, phew!
So I cannot prescribe a concortion for these yayas
Assuming you have a good househelpLet me try to answer @mkeiyd, by highlighting the teachings of Islam that might be of help to us, expecially parents.
The Prophet of Islam has said:
1. When the
child reaches the age of seven years, arrange a separate bed for him.
2. When
girls reach ten years, they must have separate individual beds. But the beds can be in same room.
"
If a mother rubs her body against the body of her own daughter, she is doing a sort of molestation."
3. When
boys and girls reach ten years, they must have separate rooms and seaprate individual beds.
4. A man should
not kiss his six year old daughter, and a woman should
not kiss her seven year old son.
Other teachings1. It is not proper that a four years old son takes a shower along with his mother. Similarly a four years old daughter should not bathe with her father.
2. The children and youth should not remain alone doing nothing. They might engage in some bad habits.
3. The private parts of a small boy must be kept covered, not exposed, to his other siblings. (I know most of you will ask what about those Turkanas walking naked)
4. The husband and wife should not sleep on one bed in the presence of their children.
They should do their private relationship without giving a hint about it to the children.
What is the consequences of not following this?- Otherwise there will be the danger of the sexual urge rising in the children and, at their age, it would be prone with horrible consequences.
- We must ensure that the children don’t develop such habits.
And for those who pray, Our Lord, grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. (Quran chapter 25:74)
NOTE: I'm not expert.