Hey,pole boss.... thats a tough one as someone noted.
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Kwani you guys have never experienced trust betrayal? Especially by someone you trully love. You can do anything to know the truth. By the time this dude posted this,he has seen signs. he has felt the hurt,the betrayal,so he is just trying to find the truth. You can only rectify things by knowing the truth. And you cant trust blindly. at least not anymore in the society we are living in. Your partner has to play his/her part to help you trust them......... but if some things dont tie up,surely,you are only human if you suspect something is wrong somewhere.....
Dude, I dont know how to hack the system but you can engage a spy who will do that for you. some of them are not that expensive and i dont think you will require a whole two months to know the truth. However,what do you want to achieve when you get the evidence? Are you ready to face the hard truth? first deal with the consequences of knowing the truth and then work to get it. Prepare yourself emotionally before getting the truth. you will be able to handle it better.
Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.