I Pray that God will comfort you so that you can comfort your wife and childrean..also on what to tell your childrean pray and God will put words in your mouth....many are times I have come across a grieving person and I lack words to say...but when I pray somehow I get words to speak afterwards I m always suprised on what I said.
Lets trust on him who
Psalm 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
2 Corinthians 1:4 Who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.