Roflol Maka!
You are a funny one.Let the 'Elders' come and advice you.
But tell them her age cz that defines a lot of things.

Drama queen, sounds so much like some wazuan lady!!!

I'm no elder, but from where I am, please expedite and marry her haraka haraka! And please don't show her any signs of hesitation. Ain't nobody perfect out there, your marriage won't be perfect either, but you'll have someone to watch your back as you watch hers.

Kneel down and ask for God's guidance, you or any other human can only know so much.

Did you say you are both on the rebound? Meaning that you met after a bad experience from wherever you were and were there for each other and thats where it started.

There is a risk of both of you coming to look for your ex-es in the current relationship, so it will always be like so and so used to do this or that differently and in some sense you just won't measure up to each others expectations.
Once a r'ship end's badly people need time to heal so they can be able to move on. To test if you have healed imagine your ex dating a Rich/hot Celeb from Hollywood, the kind that makes every lady scream when he appears in public and "die" when he talks with a 6 pack and toned body and admit to yourself what it feels like. Let your lady do the same imagination test and if you both survive it with no bad feeling at all then move on to do what @ Kiagangio advised you.
Are you prepared psychologically, financially and emotionally to support a family? There is alot of preparation to be done before you can settle down so don't rush unless you want to join the statistics of failed marriage which are so common lately.

Congrats!

Least we digress from @makas (mis)fortunes,usijipange sana and dont look for the ultimate one. further make sure u taste before taking it to a higher level. o'wise you will be disappointed big time.

Also watch out for rebound since both of you are looking for support!