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Coolbull
#21 Posted : Friday, October 05, 2012 8:54:15 AM
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sitaki.kujulikana wrote:
Coolbull wrote:
Marriage works best when done right....just like everything else in life. You can't get an A in Mathematics while studying English.

Marriage has principles that ought to be followed for things to work out well.

Most people put water in the petrol tank and expect the thing to work! Umuhimu wa maji uko kwa radiator.

I like the book "Are You Wife Material" - it lays it all bare. I posted a few excerpts sometime back.

LINK



that book is very harsh on sex


Which chapter coz I found it very real and truthful?
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maka
#22 Posted : Friday, October 05, 2012 9:22:42 AM
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sitaki.kujulikana wrote:
D32 wrote:
Jus Blazin wrote:
maka wrote:
Can i marry someone am not sure i love?

As long as you aren't sure you love them, you shouldn't marry them.


I think that adultery finds its way to a spouse who married without loving the partner, for why would one cheat on someone they love?


Marriage is a complex institution will mostly work if there is commitment and sacrifice from both partners, love is just a value addition.

one should never marry for love, a perfect partner is one you can stand for the rest of your life.

...thats my thinking too as long as she,z decent,focussed,nice,someone you rely on then thats the part,love will grow along the way.
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Jus Blazin
#23 Posted : Friday, October 05, 2012 9:40:07 AM
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sitaki.kujulikana wrote:
D32 wrote:
Jus Blazin wrote:
maka wrote:
Can i marry someone am not sure i love?

As long as you aren't sure you love them, you shouldn't marry them.


I think that adultery finds its way to a spouse who married without loving the partner, for why would one cheat on someone they love?


Marriage is a complex institution will mostly work if there is commitment and sacrifice from both partners, love is just a value addition.

one should never marry for love, a perfect partner is one you can stand for the rest of your life.

You are the people who believe love is just a feeling. You are so wrong. Love is a verb. Its action-oriented. Love in its own form (the feelings), as we know it, does not hold the key to a happy marriage. Love should encompass values like trust, honesty, faithfulness, sacrifice, committment, respect, et cetera. That's why we are told the greatest is love. Hii mambo ya thinking love is value addition is just a cuando seas mia line of thought.
Luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity. ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca
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