I don't know what to tell people.
So you want the girl in campus to stay a virgin, never attend a party and stay the whole day reading for cats?
If you do, then expect the worst from those kinds of girls.
Campus is a rite of passage. Sure there are a few "evil" people with bad intentions but I stopped blaming that on anything one day when I saw a guy spiked in a matatu as he was going home to his wife and children at 7pm.
You can't just keep on posting here that the reason this happened to this lady was because she was immoral. That's a sign of lazy thinking. You can't say that because the boyfriend didn't go out with her she was immoral. You are setting up yourself for you wife never going out but sleeping in with the house boy or house girl.
Morality has nothing to do with something that happens otherwise bad things would never happen to "moral" people and good thing would never happen to "immoral" people.
Get a grip. Stay on the evidence. Then you will find out what really happened. But leave the morality talk out of this. Especially since I hazard to guess most of you posting about it were not virgins when you got married. Or are not virgins if unmarried.
Jose: If I make it through this thug life, I'll see you one day. The Lord is the only way to stop the hurt.