@ all,

I think what she is looking for is whether +/-5 years is too high. Not just and old woman/younger guy. I think the 5year gap is almost the same age group and should not be so much of an issue. These kind of marriages are very common in Urban centres if only people were to be open enough and share their ages.

@ NGWONO

could you be kind enough and share with us the foundation issues in detail

You're so right. Anything borrowed from the West goes nowadays. We all know that it is un African,but who's to stop you and your boyfriend? The West knows that the quickest way to enslave a people is to destroy their culture,and the woman is always the first target,because she is the bedrock of a people.

The man he thinks he can,and the one who thinks he can't are both right. Which one are you?

@ ngwono......nah.....he's 28,we got no issues ourselves about this,it's just the families

@ all,

Thank you everyone and stay blessed.


LIFE IS FOR THE LIVING,DEAD MEN TELL NO TALE.

A 27 year old woman marrying a 22 year old is very different from a 32 year old lady marrying a 27 year old man..the flip side is a horny 47 year old man 'asking' from a 53 year old! Either way,it can't be perfect. Prioritise and act.

NB:stocksguru7,you've cracked me up.

@Lamcy

WawwW! The two of you have no issue with one another! Having looked at the facts in file,then that's the fast breakthru that should never be overlooked since at the end of the day you will be all a lone,staying together to an extent that when one falls,the other takes charge(Two are better than one).

Now,the next very important exercise is to convince parents.Hope thats what u mean when u talk of families.If parents are at home with your fiance and other family members are not for it then that should not give you a headache.Actually,this is one of the fundamentals that i will be downloading very soon.

Parents should not be ignored,they might not be for it but you've got the burden to convince them of your choice(ur love).So let the guy do his homework as you do yours too.Make sure you get Paros blessings.Its very important since they have authority over you.If it will be the will of God that you marry this fella,then whichever way,they will have to submit to Gods will.

Parents approvals should come first b4 you disclose to the public.If you are born again,then you need a trustable prayer partner to stand with you at this moment.But if not,still you need a mentor,not the public,i mean one person who you can confide in.

Whishing you all the best in the next but very importnt stage.May God give you & your fiance favour before your parents.


Without Holiness no man shall see God.Dear God,mould me to be a vessel of honour at this End times,to remain Obedient to your Word in all situations.Amen!