wazua Fri, Apr 17, 2026
Welcome Guest Search | Active Topics | Log In

4 Pages123>»
Older wife,younger Husband?
Options
Previous Topic · Next Topic
Lamcy
#1 Posted : Tuesday, September 02, 2008 8:06:00 PM
Rank: Member

Joined: 7/31/2008
Posts: 5
In the western world this is the in thing.....wondering when this will finally be accepted by the kenyan society.....anyone in the above situation? have you faced any difficulties.....engaged to a 5 yrs. younger guy.


LIFE IS FOR THE LIVING,DEAD MEN TELL NO TALE.
Back to top
  |
TheBull
#2 Posted : Wednesday, September 03, 2008 3:15:00 AM
Rank: Member

Joined: 8/4/2008
Posts: 2
hi..this is an investment club..plis post this stuff to kenyan sites like http://www.lovepot.com/blog

thebull..just helping you madam.
Back to top
  |
Lamcy
#3 Posted : Wednesday, September 03, 2008 5:02:00 AM
Rank: Member

Joined: 7/31/2008
Posts: 5
@ The Bull......... Thanx . Much appreciated.


LIFE IS FOR THE LIVING,DEAD MEN TELL NO TALE.
Back to top
  |
Sober
#4 Posted : Wednesday, September 03, 2008 5:07:00 AM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 11/27/2007
Posts: 3,604
ask those close to wambui and otieno. they have a story

A likely impossibility is always preferable to an unconvincing posibility.
African parents don't know how to say sorry.. the closest you will get to a sorry is a 'have you eaten'
Back to top
  |
PONDI
#5 Posted : Wednesday, September 03, 2008 5:27:00 AM
Rank: Veteran

Joined: 5/8/2007
Posts: 885
@lamcy bora kazi inafanywa vilivyo..wewe kaa ngumu.......hapo hapo. why do i think maybe men your age cant 'keep up' ?? hehe....nature plays games with us all the time. as a woman ages her desires increase...kwanza late 30's to around 50....wachana naye....yet for men its the opposite. solution is to do what you have done.... continue ji-enjoying
Back to top
  |
eli
#6 Posted : Wednesday, September 03, 2008 6:58:00 AM
Rank: Member

Joined: 6/17/2008
Posts: 294
There could be challenges in these kinds of marriages! Advices my pastor! How would you like it when your wife is old and you are still younger! You have lots of sexual energy and she is nolonger interested. Would you be happy! Ama utaanza kutafuta ndogo ndogo!

The same case,like that was blocked from proceeding with their wedding in our church
Back to top
  |
ngwono
#7 Posted : Wednesday, September 03, 2008 7:00:00 AM
Rank: Member

Joined: 8/8/2008
Posts: 201
@lamcy

Age is a number.Tho big diff is not good but personally i dont think +or -5 should be an issue.What really matters is putting the right foundations before you marry then at the end of the day you will be the happiest couples on earth.Who does not admire happy couples? You see them walking down the street you will wish you were the one.Great work is on putting the right foundation,before you marry (b4 knowing each other),not going for shortcuts since marriage is a relationship between you and your guy but it also involves your family members,your community and Kenya as a whole including me.So if He loves you and you love him then mine is to wish you Courtship yenye baraka.


Without Holiness no man shall see God.Dear God,mould me to be a vessel of honour at this End times,to remain Obedient to your Word in all situations.Amen!
Back to top
  |
Wendz
#8 Posted : Wednesday, September 03, 2008 8:02:00 AM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 6/19/2008
Posts: 4,268
If both of you are happy with each other... go for it!! you could be in a 'proper' (older man) african relationship and you arent happy. so.... forget about what people will say. didnt we all make noise about wambui and mbugua?? didnt we later shut up when we realised we had more issues to settle than just thinking about them? so go right ahead!!

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
Back to top
  |
stocksguru7
#9 Posted : Wednesday, September 03, 2008 9:01:00 AM
Rank: Member

Joined: 6/28/2007
Posts: 38
Confucius say
For old woman to marry young husband is like to buy book for others to read

UN PACTUM UN DICTUM
UN PACTUM UN DICTUM
Back to top
  |
festom
#10 Posted : Wednesday, September 03, 2008 9:19:00 AM
Rank: Member

Joined: 8/15/2008
Posts: 84
It's time you started living ur life. shut ur ears to what others say and live ur life. What is important is if both of u are in love!!! Age means nothing,it's just a number.

Good luck


Don't sit and wait - look for the next opportunity
Back to top
  |
4 Pages123>»
Forum Jump  
You cannot post new topics in this forum.
You cannot reply to topics in this forum.
You cannot delete your posts in this forum.
You cannot edit your posts in this forum.
You cannot create polls in this forum.
You cannot vote in polls in this forum.

Wazua Club SK Theme
Powered by YAF | YAF © 2003-2009, Yet Another Forum.NET
Copyright © 2026 Wazua.co.ke. All Rights Reserved.