My conclusion from many posts here,It looks like couples living apart may be likely to remain in love for a long time.Living under one roof can be a hell on earth these days .Isn't it so?

God Is God. All the time.

@Wairegi.Just be happy with the status quo. from the look of things from others experience it looks like you get missed just because you are far away.

Mkizoeana madharau dogodogo zinaanza.

Kwanza if you have to leave that job,make sure that you have another one immediately or atleast come alternative income.





God Is God. All the time.

@Mkristo,I tend to agree with you. My parents lived apart for most of their lives coz they were working in different towns,they always looked happy when we were together. Now in retirement they are having issues I think I experienced like five years ago in my marriage,with all due respects.

I will praise thee,O Lord my God,with all my heart: And I will glorify thy name forever more. Psalms 86:12

Me feels it better to be together than to stay apart.When you are together you get the opportunity to understand one another.You deal with matters quickly and first hand.The madharau kidogo kidogo are bound to be there whenever two or three human beings are staying together.Its what spices the relationship.You cannot avoid staying with your family at ndio wife asikutharau.The monotony may clip in but that can be balanced by who well you balance things.Going out,doing it diferently,comin late sometimes and pitaing with the door,smarking the kid sometimes even when he has done nothing wrong,at least wajue u r incharge.

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Its not as bad guys but has its challenges. I left for Middle East after 5 yrs of marriage and i must say it has been rewarding. It depends on our diffrent situations. I manage to see my kids and chief of staff every 6 to 8 weeks and talk to my kind twice every day,at 6.30am before they go to school and in the evening. I know what homework they have on daily basis,it comes at acost but its worthy it. I have been to do things I was not able to do it my 10 plus years of working in Nairobi. Everybody appreciates my contribution,my kids are happy and confident,I spend every available minute with them whenever I am in Nairobi for example I drop my daughters to school and pick them up on daily basis for as long as I am in the country. I have talked to them and keep reminding them that I am doing what I am doing to secure their future. I have had challenges with my chief of staff but whenever this happens we dont postpone till I come home,we deal with them squarely,for me I say it as it is and life goes on. I dont plan to be away forever but once I have secured reasonable financial freedom,I will hop on the next flight home.