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murchr
#21 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 12:44:45 AM
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Mukiri wrote:
They addressed it in church today.

First, only the wife is a member of the church. She serves in the choir. The pastor belongs to another church.

Second, there was a 2 hour interlude after the commotion began. All parties were listened to, grievances heard and councelling took place. 2 hours. After which (this much I'll trust the man of God) all parties wishing to distrupt the wedding apologized; one was in tears of remorse.

The couple was also counselled, after which they agreed to proceed with the wedding. The church lawyer is a pastor himself.


Thats a load of Bull....2hours is nothing did they verify the claims that were raised. The pastor listened to the church lawyer, but she is as good as the clerks at the DC's office
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Caveman
#22 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 12:50:10 AM
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tassia wrote:
The issues raised were weighty. Any honest pastor would not have proceeded with the ceremony. If I was the officiating pastor, I would have stopped it. If the guys really were keen on my presiding over the wedding, I would only have proceeded if the allegations were found to be false after an investigation.

What shocked me is that the church relied on the advice of the Church lawyer. By relying on the lawyer's advice alone, the Pastor reduced himself to just any other agent at the AG's office who conducts weddings. A higher threshold is expected for a church wedding and especially when one of the persons participating in marriage is a Pastor.

That girl who was getting married is also not genuine. The issue raised before her eyes should have been enough to send shock waves in her and should nit have continued with her dancing like nothing had happened. I guess she could have been pregnant.


I agree with you. This wedding should have been postponed until all the issues raised were resolved.
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Coolbull
#23 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 1:40:51 AM
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Here is the RINK

"The church lawyer is a pastor himself"

@Mukiri - are you sure? Maybe a church elder.

That wedding should have been stopped and issues addresed.
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sheri
#24 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 9:44:51 AM
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@Mukiri what about the land the kijana was talking about. Did they discuss about it.
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Impunity
#25 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 9:54:28 AM
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McReggae wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
They addressed it in church today.

First, only the wife is a member of the church. She serves in the choir. The pastor belongs to another church.

Second, there was a 2 hour interlude after the commotion began. All parties were listened to, grievances heard and councelling took place. 2 hours. After which (this much I'll trust the man of God) all parties wishing to distrupt the wedding apologized; one was in tears of remorse.

The couple was also counselled, after which they agreed to proceed with the wedding. The church lawyer is a pastor himself.


Spin docter!!

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So the those infants paraded are not pastor's seeds...???
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Dia
#26 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 10:18:50 AM
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Magigi wrote:
McReggae wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
They addressed it in church today.

First, only the wife is a member of the church. She serves in the choir. The pastor belongs to another church.

Second, there was a 2 hour interlude after the commotion began. All parties were listened to, grievances heard and councelling took place. 2 hours. After which (this much I'll trust the man of God) all parties wishing to distrupt the wedding apologized; one was in tears of remorse.

The couple was also counselled, after which they agreed to proceed with the wedding. The church lawyer is a pastor himself.

Spin docter!!

...Those issues were too heavy to be addressed in 2 hours...Five proper landings...



So let me get this straight, you make mistakes, reform, confess to your pastor and fiancee, go through counselling, make a public announcement 3 weeks before the wedding requesting anyone who is against it to speak up and nothing happens. You make the annoucement again at the ceremony and only THEN do people stand up to oppose the ceremony?

Isn't it a bit curious that the media house(s) were present for a rather kawaida (as in no big shot n the picture) wedding? Someone had given them advance notice of the drama expected to unfold!Why the need to air the drama on national TV if you are genuinely agrieved? This smacks more of revenge than genuine issues to me.Shame on you

And the lady opposing it was doing it on grounds that she had been promised to be wed by the pastor. Forget the pastor and church lawyer, is a promise to wed another woman really a genuine reason to stop a wedding? d'oh!

And how does land buying come to play in a wedding ceremony?

Disclaimer: I am not related to the groom or a member of his congregationsmile
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Magigi
#27 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 10:35:41 AM
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Dia wrote:
So let me get this straight, you make mistakes, reform, confess to your pastor and fiancee, go through counselling, make a public announcement 3 weeks before the wedding requesting anyone who is against it to speak up and nothing happens. You make the annoucement again at the ceremony and only THEN do people stand up to oppose the ceremony?

...You speak like you don't live in Kenya and don't know how dirty men can get. This is the only lesson some men can understand! It served him right and showed how contemptuous we are to the word we purport to preach. No amount of 'spindoctoring' can change the fact that this was a grave mistake
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Dia
#28 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 10:56:15 AM
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Magigi wrote:
Dia wrote:
So let me get this straight, you make mistakes, reform, confess to your pastor and fiancee, go through counselling, make a public announcement 3 weeks before the wedding requesting anyone who is against it to speak up and nothing happens. You make the annoucement again at the ceremony and only THEN do people stand up to oppose the ceremony?

...You speak like you don't live in Kenya and don't know how dirty men can get. This is the only lesson some men can understand! It served him right and showed how contemptuous we are to the word we purport to preach. No amount of 'spindoctoring' can change the fact that this was a grave mistake


Again, this was a revenge mission. Period.

I just pray the bride does not live to regret her decision to marry the 'pastor'.
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selah
#29 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 11:59:16 AM
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I remember sometime back a lady tried to disrupt a wedding in our church claiming the groom was her man...within seconds she was thrown out accompanied by several slaps...to keep that devil in check.and the wedding continued...The pastor argued that since that wedding had been planned for months the aggrieved lady could have gone to the presiding pastor and launched a complaint..she never did..and then waited until the wedding day to cause commotion...that was unacceptable.
'......to the acknowledgment of the mystery of God, and of the Father, and of Christ; 3 In whom are hid all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.' Colossians 2:2-3
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kenmac
#30 Posted : Monday, August 13, 2012 12:01:46 PM
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Dia wrote:
Magigi wrote:
Dia wrote:
So let me get this straight, you make mistakes, reform, confess to your pastor and fiancee, go through counselling, make a public announcement 3 weeks before the wedding requesting anyone who is against it to speak up and nothing happens. You make the annoucement again at the ceremony and only THEN do people stand up to oppose the ceremony?

...You speak like you don't live in Kenya and don't know how dirty men can get. This is the only lesson some men can understand! It served him right and showed how contemptuous we are to the word we purport to preach. No amount of 'spindoctoring' can change the fact that this was a grave mistake


Again, this was a revenge mission. Period.

I just pray the bride does not live to regret her decision to marry the 'pastor'.




I support. .....
There is about one month notice given for the wedding. They should have given their grievnces then, not spoiling the big day. makes it look like 'utaniona' attitude.
......Ecclesiastes
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