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Rank: Hello Joined: 7/18/2012 Posts: 7
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Hi all Wazuas, Need some through advise.My galfriend is 17yrs younger than me and marriage is in the pipelin,am getting to 40s very soon and I have a child born form my previous affair. Now i need to get advise,Can this relationship have problems later on in our lifes considering the age diff,priorities and the lifestlyes of both of us.  
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/28/2006 Posts: 1,799
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bellshade wrote:Hi all Wazuas, Need some through advise.My galfriend is 17yrs younger than me and marriage is in the pipelin,am getting to 40s very soon and I have a child born form my previous affair. Now i need to get advise,Can this relationship have problems later on in our lifes considering the age diff,priorities and the lifestlyes of both of us. every marriage has problems.. its how you handle them that matters.. alot will be said about age difference, etc.. but at the end of the day it boils down to how u handle issues that may arise.. U only live once.. dont let a good thing go coz of age.. Heck she might even be good for ur blood pressure  at 40 atakupeleka mbio mbio u will remain young and keep fit..
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/28/2011 Posts: 213
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@bellshade.....
1)karibu sana
2)If it has started to bother you then theres a problem already.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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bellshade wrote:Hi all Wazuas, Need some through advise.My galfriend is 17yrs younger than me and marriage is in the pipelin,am getting to 40s very soon and I have a child born form my previous affair. Now i need to get advise,Can this relationship have problems later on in our lifes considering the age diff,priorities and the lifestlyes of both of us. Assuming you are 37, then she must be 20. I bet the fact that you have realised that you'll have different priorities, lifestyles etc, then you know where the problems may arise... Problems are always there in marriage, and many of them are not "age-difference" related.... but having said that, sometimes a huge age difference can prove difficult if not well handled... especially because of different life perspectives. If there are any problems, they may have cropped up during courtship - unless its a blind date. If none has cropped up, then life is good because it might mean you can handle them in future... if major ones have cropped up, trust me, they can only get worse with "familiarization" if not well handled.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/17/2008 Posts: 23,365 Location: Nairobi
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Ai, huyo ni mtoto kwako jameni!!!! ..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/28/2006 Posts: 1,799
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McReggae wrote:Ai, huyo ni mtoto kwako jameni!!!! kwani unataka akuwachie... kila nyani na starehe zake..
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/17/2008 Posts: 23,365 Location: Nairobi
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chemos wrote:McReggae wrote:Ai, huyo ni mtoto kwako jameni!!!! kwani unataka akuwachie... kila nyani na starehe zake.. 36yr old na 19yr old....chida mzee nakuambia!!!! ..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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Rank: Member Joined: 6/28/2010 Posts: 293 Location: Gigiri
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bellshade wrote:Hi all Wazuas, Need some through advise.My galfriend is 17yrs younger than me and marriage is in the pipelin,am getting to 40s very soon and I have a child born form my previous affair. Now i need to get advise,Can this relationship have problems later on in our lifes considering the age diff,priorities and the lifestlyes of both of us. Hii ndio shida ya kunyemelea campus students. She came, she saw, she stuck Sina Signature. NKT
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/11/2008 Posts: 2,306
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Girls at about 20 years tend to be quite choosy, why does she want to get married to you in view of the age diff? is she comfortable with your age? Have you discounted the usual issues such as Mulla Etc. You need to think long and hard before committing but if she is ok, then by all means go ahead. Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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Rank: Hello Joined: 7/18/2012 Posts: 7
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@chemos thanks,@mcReggae, we are looking for advise here not -ve answers
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