Perhaps it is the wrong timing for her. Any man who will check in will look at those kids and think 'Hmmmm,...so this one wants me to chip in with their upbringing, kulipa fees, food etc ..why should I raise another man's kids?', he will play nice till he gets laid and then bail out.
On the other hand, when the children have finished college, and its just the woman, potential nice dudes will let their guard down ...

She also needs to adjust her thinking a bit (in other words really lower the bar), attitudes she had when single and unencumbered will not help much.

AIRPORT DIGGER.... umekuwa guest all this long halafu ukiona an aiport in distress u quickly register and try to hit the cookie jar...

Haupati NG'OOOO

Many questions unanswered..if she was peeping earlier why didnt she come out to 'defend' herself and tell us her qualities. A picture is worth a thao words,how does she look like-plain,average,smoking hot? There are some late 30's,early 40's ladies with or without kids who give our 20 & 30 something yrs ladies serious compe.

^^ true.They touch on emotions and trust people to react to such.
Thread inakuwa na so many pages. smh.



You see?? this is what gives rise to wamboi mbugua kind of scenarios.
I thought the post clearly said she is financially stable?
Shes got everything going on for her kids and she only needs a good time?
Take them to boarding.They aren't kids anywmore.
But no,I guess her problem isn't time so no need to.

Me thinks she holds the key to unlocking her misery.
Many women set very high standards for themselves because they have achieved and sacrificed too much.
I don't know if it's justifiable or not because again I wouldn't encourage one to go search for a loser.
She just needs to be more accomodating and seek in the right places.Broaden her search even beyond borders.
EAC is big.

Searching in clubs to me is a NO NO.

Wapi serikali isaidie?

I think nobody is honest with this lady and I am going to be very honest the best she can find at the moment is a man over 35yrs old who is either broke broke or with a bunch of kids and fairly broke so make peace with that first.

Secondly and here is how I drew my conclusions, take me for example, I am a single(not married) guy, I have a 6 yr old kid, I am fairly paid and will be 30yrs old by the end of the year why in the world would I date a 36 yrs old woman with kids when I can find a 22 yrs old? Ever seen a woman flash a 35 yrs old tit? it is old and ugly sorry to say but, I will advise you to find a broke man who want part of you money, atleast you'll get regular sex and someone you can push around because to be honest every single woman in their mid 30s have problems no man can deal with.

For all you women in your mid 20s and no boyfriend you should start worrying right now because by 27yrs few men will be knocking!

Lastly... can I get your friends email or phone?