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Rank: Member Joined: 8/2/2010 Posts: 480 Location: chokoo
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,331 Location: Masada
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karqui wrote: Need to help a colleague/friend out of loneliness. I have offered the advice I know in the book but nothing seems to work, ie steady male friend, clubbing, touring, etc. She is nice looking and can keep good company but withdrawn and no ’steady’ male. she is not married but has a family, financially stable. Currently unattached, just shuffles between job, kids and home. She hates the flow and is seeking a better more enjoyable life. Ngapi na how old? Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/15/2011 Posts: 4,518
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In short u are a broker.  Quote:ie steady male friend, clubbing, touring, etc. ?? If that is what you offered you missed the point. Deal with the cause of her withdrawal not the symptoms cz wht u did was just bandage a cancerous wound. After that is done,kuna some two mad fellows stressing. I can refer. "The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/26/2008 Posts: 2,097
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"A friend" again? Bring her to register at Wazua. Alete shida mwenyewe and then pap! 90 responses in one day. "Never regret, if its good, its wonderful. If its bad, its experience."
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 1/25/2012 Posts: 1,624 Location: Langley
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Nothing but prayer. If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/28/2006 Posts: 1,799
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Tembea na Yesu.. wachana na wanaume wa hi dunia.. Na hiyo Steady male ni mgani? yule amesteady???? 
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 2/3/2010 Posts: 1,797 Location: Kenya
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chemos wrote:Tembea na Yesu.. wachana na wanaume wa hi dunia.. Na hiyo Steady male ni mgani? yule amesteady???? ama ni @jump-steady I may be wrong..but then I could be right
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/26/2012 Posts: 1,182
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@karqui, seek to know how she became lonely. There has to be a series of events/happenings that has led your friend to the current state of affairs.
Suggesting she goes clubbing/touring,is just addressing the symptoms.
In what you have suggested, she might get pleasure, but NOT happiness.
She needs to deal with herself before engaging anyone else.
The way to do it? Going back to where/how it all started.
The loneliness lies within.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,331 Location: Masada
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digitek1 wrote:chemos wrote:Tembea na Yesu.. wachana na wanaume wa hi dunia.. Na hiyo Steady male ni mgani? yule amesteady???? ama ni @jump-steady Yule husimama wima...!!! Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/26/2008 Posts: 2,097
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chemos wrote:.. wachana na wanaume wa hi dunia.. Na hiyo Steady male ni mgani? yule amesteady???? Aende dunia gani??? Wonder why people take advantage of women who are single parents! They are being dated left right and once men get what they want they go mia. @Karqui.... Tell her to cross her leggs for the time being till she finds the real purpose of life, and meanwhile take a keener interest in her other hobbies, even may join is it YWCA or take up a part time study in a field. "Never regret, if its good, its wonderful. If its bad, its experience."
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