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Mshindi
#1 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 10:56:15 AM
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Gff, wazuans please advise, i am seriously attracted to my colleague seated near me in the office. I have to resist this but it is killing me...

Wazuans, how do you deal with such tempations (Only constructive advice please) am serious...Pray Pray Pray
Robinhood
#2 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:03:26 AM
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Mshindi wrote:
Gff, wazuans please advise, i am seriously attracted to my colleague seated near me in the office. I have to resist this but it is killing me...

Wazuans, how do you deal with such tempations (Only constructive advice please) am serious...Pray Pray Pray


@Mshindi, are you are a Jamaa or a chick?
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
King G
#3 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:06:27 AM
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Socket au Plug
Thieves
essyk
#4 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:16:02 AM
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smh.how old r u

Woe unto u if ur company has a policy touching on such matters.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
Mshindi
#5 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:21:57 AM
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essyk wrote:
smh.how old r u

Woe unto u if ur company has a policy touching on such matters.



Thirties...No company policy, only personal policy.
Mshindi
#6 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:23:40 AM
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Robinhood wrote:
Mshindi wrote:
Gff, wazuans please advise, i am seriously attracted to my colleague seated near me in the office. I have to resist this but it is killing me...

Wazuans, how do you deal with such tempations (Only constructive advice please) am serious...Pray Pray Pray


@Mshindi, are you are a Jamaa or a chick?


A married gal Shame on you Brick wall
simonkabz
#7 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:32:12 AM
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Haiya!!!!
TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
essyk
#8 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:33:34 AM
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eh! run to the mountain of fire and offer two rams.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
Ngalaka
#9 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:34:19 AM
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Jishinde uyashinde!
Isuni yilu yi maa me muyo - ni Mbisuu
Mastermind
#10 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:36:29 AM
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essyk wrote:
eh! run to the mountain of fire and offer two rams.

Mountain of fire. Where is that?
If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them.
essyk
#11 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:40:20 AM
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Mastermind wrote:
essyk wrote:
eh! run to the mountain of fire and offer two rams.

Mountain of fire. Where is that?


no idea. ngong or kitmikaye maybe?
whatever!just run b4 karma catches up with you.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
essyk
#12 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:41:57 AM
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dltd.rpt.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
keke2
#13 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:43:22 AM
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essyk wrote:
Mastermind wrote:
essyk wrote:
eh! run to the mountain of fire and offer two rams.

Mountain of fire. Where is that?


no idea. ngong or kitmikaye maybe?
whatever!just run like joseph did before karma catches up with you.

And Pray Pray
Njung'e
#14 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:47:48 AM
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Fatally attracted to a married woman?Watch out!!...It can turn out fatal....I know of a hubby who planted a long knife on the buttocks of a young man who was fatally attracted to his wife.
Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
Kaka M
#15 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:49:24 AM
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It's good you are having these feelings, its shows u r a normal human being.
U can solve this problem by guarding particularly your imagination. You are probably imagining about the qualities and quantities of this guy and now your heart mind and body wants to fill in that blank space of is he as good as he looks, sounds appears etc.
Reject all these thoughts the moment they get into your mind and probably all instances of your mind wandering about anything except positive things of your work, family etc.
Being 30 something I expect that experience etc has taught u that men are all the same and women are all the same offcourse with some variations.
There is therefore nothing new(i.e positive) you are going to get from this colleague of yours.
Finally look for positive ways of expressing your feelings to your Loved ones. Eg: To keep your mind occupied constructively think of the treat you will be giving your family this end month weekend. some special meal an outing a small present for each of them etc.
QW25091985
#16 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:52:35 AM
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Njung'e wrote:
Fatally attracted to a married woman?Watch out!!...It can turn out fatal....I know of a hubby who planted a long knife on the buttocks of a young man who was fatally attracted to his wife.



just say its you . !
udaypette
#17 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:54:14 AM
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Ngai fafa! Resist! resist!. Dont give in to evil, you are married.
quicksand
#18 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:56:24 AM
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@Mshindi ...it is not clear ..is it you who is a married gal or you are a jamaa attracted to a married gal?
King G
#19 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 11:57:41 AM
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Remember there is Sexual Offences bill that has clauses touching on relationships at work. Let @Njunge not scare you. TRy your luck with lunch dates then she will open up, start telling you hubby this hubby that all the negatives then and then you pounce mara that that. But make sure you are better than the hubby. Even married gals normally want kitu freshy once in a while.
Thieves
cmk
#20 Posted : Thursday, June 28, 2012 12:03:35 PM
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pita na yeye..no worries
Every man is guilty of all the good he didn't do-
Voltaire
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