Gff, wazuans please advise, i am seriously attracted to my colleague seated near me in the office. I have to resist this but it is killing me...

Wazuans, how do you deal with such tempations (Only constructive advice please) am serious...

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Thirties...No company policy, only personal policy.

Haiya!!!!

Jishinde uyashinde!

no idea. ngong or kitmikaye maybe?
whatever!just run b4 karma catches up with you.

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It's good you are having these feelings, its shows u r a normal human being.
U can solve this problem by guarding particularly your imagination. You are probably imagining about the qualities and quantities of this guy and now your heart mind and body wants to fill in that blank space of is he as good as he looks, sounds appears etc.
Reject all these thoughts the moment they get into your mind and probably all instances of your mind wandering about anything except positive things of your work, family etc.
Being 30 something I expect that experience etc has taught u that men are all the same and women are all the same offcourse with some variations.
There is therefore nothing new(i.e positive) you are going to get from this colleague of yours.
Finally look for positive ways of expressing your feelings to your Loved ones. Eg: To keep your mind occupied constructively think of the treat you will be giving your family this end month weekend. some special meal an outing a small present for each of them etc.

Ngai fafa! Resist! resist!. Dont give in to evil, you are married.

Remember there is Sexual Offences bill that has clauses touching on relationships at work. Let @Njunge not scare you. TRy your luck with lunch dates then she will open up, start telling you hubby this hubby that all the negatives then and then you pounce mara that that. But make sure you are better than the hubby. Even married gals normally want kitu freshy once in a while.