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Many men have chickened-out from being real Godly men. They ignore the importance of relying on God for a spouse. They never approach the throne of mercy and grace with confidence and make their requests known to God. They rely on their own strength - the arm of the flesh which always fails. It is not the woman’s problem. It is the man solely to blame.

No man worth the title husband should demand respect or submission from the wife if he has not submitted to the authority of Jesus Christ. The same God who commanded the wife to submit to the husband is the very same God who commanded the husband to first submit to Him and also love the wife unconditionally, just as He loved the church.

A husband who does not love the wife the way Christ loves the church,to a point of dying for it, has no authority to demand any form of submission from her.

The chain of command is very clear: JESUS >HUSBAND > WIFE.
Not just : HUSBAND > WIFE.

Before a man asks if a woman is wife material he needs to ask himself if he is husband material.

A true man of God is not worried or concerned whether women are “taking up our positions,” because he already has his position secure in the Lord – be it at home, church, government or workplace.