Caroline Mutoko is correct. We all don't want to die...and since its inevitable..we want it rather quick and painless.

The problem with this woman is first, the timing. These people have just died. Whether quick or slow...they died. The people undergoing pain are their loved ones. Such a post, with a particular emphasis on the nature of their death, doesn't make their recovery any faster.

Secondly, Caroline has good intentions by wishing their souls rest in peace. But her choice of words is pathetic, to say the least. To quote part of her post 'It is my prayer they died quickly'. How do you choose such words to console someone bereaved. If you don't see a problem with those words ..wait till you lose someone dear through a tragic misfortune and someone uses such words.

Without meaning to judge..such a post and her subsequent reaction reflect somebody who is aloof and arrogant. Sad!

So in your view it should have been made relevantly if made before they died?

My understanding is that the post was made after they had died. And in the context it could have only been relevant if made after they were dead. See nothing wrong with it. They were already dead and given the way in which she died, she was consoling with them and wishing that the death wasn't painful or if painful then not for long.

Whether english was right, wrong, twisted whatever, With the photos I saw, I could only agree with mutoko and wish they had a quick death. Hopefully from the impact rather than the slow painful burning. That is just pure torture.

That was totally uncalled for! It is God who gives kids not human beings en she did not choose to be that way! En the thread has nothing to do with her being barren! en did she by any chance tell u she is barren or r u acting out of gossip!
En who said barren women have no voice to speak? Nkt! Don't count urself lucky!