I have gone through the comments unfortunately no one is honest to you! To put everything in perspective understand that the lady you do not want is on average not wanted by alot of people so in market terms it is undersubscribed and therefore discounted. On the other hand the woman you want is on average wanted by alot of other people so the competition is high for her, it matches a situation called oligopoly or in plain language, she has alot of other options and you have to pay premium to get her.

Simple; your rejections is not a punishment it is a sign that she might not be attaching as much value to you as you attach to yourself. To explain further, when she look at you and based on some objective measure e.g salary, career, assets and subjective measures e.g cool, savvy,nice, handsome; you're not worth her!

conclusion: up the measures or move on, you're not getting her!

it's called payback time! all the bad stuff you did to those innocent birds is getting back at you. an eye for an eye...malipo ni papa hapa!

I don't know the difference between rejection and refusal, your problem is you do not want to believe what is right infront of you. I didn't even say it is about money, I stated that is is objective measures, which include money and there is subjective measures which included, cool, savvy, handsome among others. So maybe you need to face the reality.

Infact someone mention why sometime one person work so hard to get a woman for another one to just walk in a snatch without much effort, the answer is because of the value the woman attach to that person. You either keep complaining or build a working strategy and for you do build a working strategy you need to start by listening to me!

"A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her."

Dittoest!