@Kaigangio...I think you din't get me I earlier said I have been there done that,and I know there are many fish in the sea but the quality is wanting,now there is this quality 1 thats waiting tobe caught but its somehow slippery...thats the 1 i want for a trophy catch...

Its as simple as @Mkeiyd puts it. How do you play Hard?

CASE STUDY

I once met a pretty girl and we kick started without the often (formal introduction).

Within weeks she started behaving awkwardly and stopped picking my calls or replying my text messages (which I rarely send) and she managed to push me to the edge - to wild desperation and hunger for her.

But I have learned to control myself so I stopped calling and resorted to just saying 'hi', chose to cut out the 'how are you(s)' and all and just became a bit tougher then usual.

One of those nights she saw me walking with a girl and surprisingly went wild with jealousy. It was beyond expectation (I could tell from the looks on her eyes), I am a bit of a psychologist too.

But I maintained my cool and just said the usual "hi" with a smile and she didn't manage that well.

Women always wonder "why not me" but the irony is that they refuse to take it when it is handed out to them the simple and easy way... the nice guy way.

Nice guys are the most honest and simple kind of guys, they do all the flower buying, show much love, give complement, call ten times in a day, tell her how much she means to them and just end up wondering why the girls don't reciprocate in any way - It's Mind Wrenching!

Try http://www.themysterykey.com/ and thank me later.

Men and women both are just trying not to get hurt. When you can see what she is doing you can stop playing into it, while having compassion for her position. Just stop trying so hard to get her attention, don’t hate her for wanting it. We are all in the same boat here.

At some point you stop the power struggle and realize that no one can take something away from you that you don’t need from them. If you need anything from anyone, they have power over you. If you are willing to let go of that thing you think you need, there is no power to be taken from you. No one can take it if you don’t give it to them. We are human and if we could do this 100% of the time we wouldn’t be, but it’s a path to start on.

Remember when you start needing anything from a woman you are in trouble. You can hate her for not giving you what you need or you can take responsibility for taking care of yourself. If you want her to validate you, validate your self instead. If you need her to validate you with her attention she can use that against you. If you don’t need her attention but you would like it that’s a different story.

@Wodu Wakiri . This remids me of a guy who searched his pockets for a piece of paper to write his number on, and not finding one, wrote on ATM ministatement! The girl surely called and the rest is history. This is called being smart and using the right tools for right occasion! But @Maka be careful with this