You must be sleeping too much during the day to get sleepless nights. You need to stay awake at work and your problem is solved.

@Kaigangio...I think you din't get me I earlier said I have been there done that,and I know there are many fish in the sea but the quality is wanting,now there is this quality 1 thats waiting tobe caught but its somehow slippery...thats the 1 i want for a trophy catch.
@Manyala...chemicalAli tena
@Essyk...Trust me am an ace something like the british Red arrows but kusema ukweli this 1 is proving to be a bit tricky,so many mixed signals its like a spoilt traffic light,mara mgreen,red,sijui amber...

and you are an ace???

Mganga kutoka Zanzibar PAP.

Its as simple as @Mkeiyd puts it. How do you play Hard?

CASE STUDY

I once met a pretty girl and we kick started without the often (formal introduction).

Within weeks she started behaving awkwardly and stopped picking my calls or replying my text messages (which I rarely send) and she managed to push me to the edge - to wild desperation and hunger for her.

But I have learned to control myself so I stopped calling and resorted to just saying 'hi', chose to cut out the 'how are you(s)' and all and just became a bit tougher then usual.

One of those nights she saw me walking with a girl and surprisingly went wild with jealousy. It was beyond expectation (I could tell from the looks on her eyes), I am a bit of a psychologist too.

But I maintained my cool and just said the usual "hi" with a smile and she didn't manage that well.

Women always wonder "why not me" but the irony is that they refuse to take it when it is handed out to them the simple and easy way... the nice guy way.

Nice guys are the most honest and simple kind of guys, they do all the flower buying, show much love, give complement, call ten times in a day, tell her how much she means to them and just end up wondering why the girls don't reciprocate in any way - It's Mind Wrenching!

Try http://www.themysterykey.com/ and thank me later.