I am trying to help you here as a lady.
There's agape and eros love.Lets not confuse the two,after all God is the author of both.
There's a way to handle @ so don't play Moses if you want to win a girl's heart.
You employ tactics za solomon but remain sober and level headed.
The girl knows you love her,but she's giving you a hard time? well play hard too.
Most important thing is,you are already in her heart and what you are seeing are just outside games.The playing elusive games are but tests.
How you react will make her decide the depth of your love for her.
Sometimes disappear kidogo.Stop calling her often,crowding her space and acting desperate.
No girl wants a desperate guy!
You will see her do the chasing now cz the magnet is already there.
That is what reverse does and I don't see it as manipulative at all.It's the art of chase.
If she doesn't come around trust me she doesn't like you at all cz no girl would waste time calling or spending time on a guy she doesn't feel.
That's all I can tell u.
Good luck.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.