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maka
#1 Posted : Thursday, June 07, 2012 11:22:55 PM
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How come the ladies you don't want you easily get but the one you truly and sincerely want to end up with,gives you sleepless nights and doesnt want to co-operate.Am facing such a situation and i have concluded that its punishment from some unseen force for the unwarranted and illegal airport landings I have been making...gosh life is so unfair.
possunt quia posse videntur
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Kusadikika
#2 Posted : Friday, June 08, 2012 5:05:43 AM
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@Maka usijali. It has happened to all of us. What happens, you like a girl so much that you become possessed by her. You are afraid to offend her, you are afraid of losing her, you are afraid of being anything that you think she might think is undesirable. The unfortunate thing you have gone through all this mental torture without even talking or making your feelings known to her because you are afraid of how she might react etc etc. For some reason I think girls can detect a man stricken in this way from a mile away and she knows she has you on her little finger.

Time is the best healer for these situations. Hang in there and with time it will go away but if she is the one, the one who you can never live without, the one you can imagine being the grandmother of your grandchildren then you have to rise up and face your fears and speak your heart, pursue her with all you got, impress her, beg her, help her, love her in all ways that you know how to love and win her heart and make her your wife.

Mufasa!!!!!! Go ye and conquer!!!
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Robinhood
#3 Posted : Friday, June 08, 2012 9:59:57 AM
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@ Maka, at least it is not your 'friend' facing this situation!smile

It may be that she does not like you thaaat much... Even if she ever capitulates, be careful should someone she really likes comes along...

Better accept stress of rejection now and move on.
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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YesuWangu
#4 Posted : Friday, June 08, 2012 10:21:31 AM
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Robinhood wrote:
@ Maka, at least it is not your 'friend' facing this situation!smile

It may be that she does not like you thaaat much... Even if she ever capitulates, be careful should someone she really likes comes along...

Better accept stress of rejection now and move on.


Maka is well on the way to rehabilitation. Full recovery will be soon.

He has recognized he is being punished and what he is being punished for.

Moving on will be much easier after this.
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chiaroscuro
#5 Posted : Friday, June 08, 2012 10:42:35 AM
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maka wrote:
How come the ladies you don't want you easily get but the one you truly and sincerely want to end up with,gives you sleepless nights and doesnt want to co-operate.Am facing such a situation and i have concluded that its punishment from some unseen force for the unwarranted and illegal airport landings I have been making...gosh life is so unfair.


Aih!

We used to have this discussion when I was something like 16 or 17 years of age. That was about 3 decades ago. You mean people are still wondering about this?
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essyk
#6 Posted : Friday, June 08, 2012 12:31:37 PM
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If you love a chick and she's not co operating,always use reverse psychology on her and see how she brings herself to you.
It's that simple.

Ask the men.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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maka
#7 Posted : Friday, June 08, 2012 12:40:37 PM
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@chiaroscuro...if its 3 decades ago the worl population was 4 billion and the probability of ending up with someone good was certain almost close to 1 now we are 7 billion and despite the massive growth the probability of ending with that right person is...almost 0.times have so changed...
@essyk...its not that she doesnt like me,she doesnt mind spending lots of time with me,calling and texting me etc but she,s being slippery and if I dont play my cards well she will end up being just a friend and I don't want that...thought I was king when it came to reverse psychology ,think I guessed wrong.
possunt quia posse videntur
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chiaroscuro
#8 Posted : Friday, June 08, 2012 12:44:35 PM
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@Maka; kwani you are a teenager?
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chemos
#9 Posted : Friday, June 08, 2012 12:47:50 PM
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Maka...

Usijali.. Essyk is soon launching her IPO.. u can perfect the art of reverse psychology with her... usahau huyo mwingine.....
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Jus Blazin
#10 Posted : Friday, June 08, 2012 12:55:15 PM
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chiaroscuro wrote:
@Maka; kwani you are a teenager?

Kuwa mpole.
Luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity. ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca
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