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Can I tactfully decline a job offer after I've already accepted?
wilyum
#1 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 11:56:01 AM
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Hello wazuans,


can i be able to do this,and if so,how?

what are the consequences that am likely to face?

helllllllllppppppp!!
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#2 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:01:07 PM
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Just don't show up!!!
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wilyum
#3 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:03:31 PM
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@bwenyenye,yes i hadnt signed any papers,bt i had accepted thro email,bt again,i will be in this industry for a while,i don't want to burn bridges,is tht advisable to do?
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#4 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:04:00 PM
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Do you mean the job offer of garden boy at Lavington?That one just dont show up,its not a competitive post and they dont even keep records of such interviews.
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#5 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:04:09 PM
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wilyum
#6 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:06:47 PM
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@impunity,you may call it tht way,bt am in a professional world so silly mistakes not allowed.
chemos
#7 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:12:41 PM
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why are u declining?
wilyum
#8 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:13:59 PM
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@chemos,better offer n among other securities issues,logistics etc....
Ondiek
#9 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:19:24 PM
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Rule of the thumb is to never to apply for a job that you are not interested in. Why the change of heart after accepting the offer?
wilyum
#10 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:22:24 PM
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@ondiek,refer above,how do deal with life with only plan A? wot if it doesnt work?
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#11 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:27:23 PM
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wilyum wrote:
@chemos,better offer n among other securities issues,logistics etc....


And why did you accept this job in the first place?

If the reporting date is about or more than 4 weeks away, then you can send a regret notice. They have time to recruit another person, because, maybe, it is a crucial or critical post/project. If you are meant to report on Monday 4th June, and you decline now, you will paint yourself in very bad light.
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chemos
#12 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:33:51 PM
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wilyum wrote:
@chemos,better offer n among other securities issues,logistics etc....



so you got another better offer after accepting this current one?

Wendz
#13 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:35:53 PM
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Write to them, thank them very much for the offer and tell them how much you believe you'd have gained by working with them. Then tell them that you regret that you will not be able to work with them due to unforeseen circumstances that have cropped up and you hope that in future, you will be able to take up a position with them when another one comes up.

Usually, organisations are not just looking at you. there's the second best candidate. Do not jeopardize your position (chance of taking another position that is better for you) for the sake of another company.... Think about it, you think if the company was presented with a choice of you being a second best and another being the best they will give you a chance? Do what you feel is good for you career wise. As long as you are polite enough to let them know....
wilyum
#14 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:38:25 PM
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@chemos,yes a week later down the line, @wendz thxs for tht.
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#15 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:47:49 PM
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@Wilyum go by Wendz's advice.

While we are at it, would you ever accept a counter offer from your employer after resigning?
nakujua
#16 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:48:15 PM
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You can't go wrong with the truth, just tell them you have received a better offer
wilyum
#17 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 12:49:31 PM
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@ondiek,kul, under no circumstances, @nakujua,thxs.
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#18 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 2:10:05 PM
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nakujua wrote:
You can't go wrong with the truth, just tell them you have received a better offer


I was once is similar shoes. Mine was quite funny coz the first offer came then we took hours negotiating with the HR manager and settles on a figure by around noon. The guy was doing the paperwork and I was to go collect the offer letter the day after. At 2pm I received a call to go pick another offer letter by a different company whose terms were much better. I had to call the HR manager of the first firm and requested him to stop the paperwork. I told him that facts have materially changed and I had a better offer on the table. He was thought I was joking but I made him understand and he wished me well. Just tell the truth and follow your head.
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#19 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 2:58:44 PM
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nakujua wrote:
You can't go wrong with the truth, just tell them you have received a better offer



I would say you go with Wendz advise. In any industry, the world is a very small place and you do not want to look and smell unprofessional. But you need tact in saying you got a "better offer".

I once had four job offers in quick succesion. I took one and after negotiations I accepted offer. Next day I'm called by another organisation I had applied to and had a better offer. I called the HR of the first org and explained and then followed up in writing. I had a month to report to the other job and after the morning introductions and what not, my team takes out the "new team member" into their lunch joint. As we are there, I get a call and its yet another offer for a position I had applied 13 months back. This was my hardest day in the world of employment. After consulting wide, I decided to take the new offer, whose package wasnt significantly different from the job I had just reported to but was rich in portfolio.

I had a candid talk with the HR lady, who was quite elderly and after the 30 minute talk, the agreement was I give notice of three weeks to allow them kujipanga. At the end of the day, always keep yourself at the tip of every consideration but maintain professionalism. Now I don't know for sure if wagging between 3 different jobs in the span of 25 days is professional but...you need to do what needs to be done.
2012
#20 Posted : Thursday, May 31, 2012 3:12:12 PM
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Ondiek wrote:


While we are at it, would you ever accept a counter offer from your employer after resigning?


No. I'm assuming by counter offer you mean money and/or position. You should have had those talks before resigning. I would not work for an employer who thinks I'm worth more just because someone else is interested.

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