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mwenza
#21 Posted : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 1:05:00 PM
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@ Ericks.......point noted but a simple calculation takes us to August not July


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Iganamagana
#22 Posted : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 1:06:00 PM
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Its terrible. If you can avoid it,please do. If the situation does not allow,call regularly and spend every minute with the family whenever you can.

Had a similar experience the first seven months of this year. Though Mama Watoto was understanding,the Kids couldnt take it. There was a clear psychological toll on them which eventually got to me. My four year old even started bed wetting and was always asking when I will stop going to work. It (the bed wetting) stopped immeadiately I came back home. Like several other guys here,I spent most of my childhood away from my Dad and turned out okey but apparently times have changed.

Wish you all the luck.


IGANA.
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Ericks
#23 Posted : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 1:27:00 PM
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@ mwenza

i thought so as well the first time i heard the story....... but apparently biology is different from mathematics or so she said,,,,like her bday is on 31st july the earliest of them all in that month is on 19th july.... so it aint ma place to do the simple computation its just the way it is........

Its just me whatever choice you make in life make sure that you can live with it.
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Ericks
#24 Posted : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 1:29:00 PM
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@ 100 ma100,,,,

what does bed wetting got to do with missing daddy??? just curious.....

Its just me
whatever choice you make in life make sure that you can live with it.
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Mpenzi
#25 Posted : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 1:48:00 PM
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@Ericks

goes without saying - anxiety
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Kamaa
#26 Posted : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 1:59:00 PM
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@ ericks

and who knows...

may be 100ma100 also did wet in his days...

When you run so fast to get somewhere,you miss the fun of getting there... Life is not a race,so take it slowly....
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Ric dees
#27 Posted : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 2:15:00 PM
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Quite frankly am scared as i read this post because i find myself in this same exact position,am newly married 1.5 months to be exact and we both live and work in London now my employer is moving us to Hong Kong (damn corporate tax) it's 15% there as opposed to 24% in London.

Question,should i tell them to kiss my ass or should i take the very generous perks on offer as well.

A very close friend of mine once told me. You can always catch up in your career but not in your family. Please advice?

Success is not measured by what you accomplish,but by the opposition you have encountered and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against the overwhelming odds'

The greatest danger in times of turbulence is not the turbulence; it is to act with yesterday's logic.
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Iganamagana
#28 Posted : Wednesday, October 07, 2009 2:16:00 PM
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@ Ericks; We suspected psychological effects of my absence.

@ Kamaa; Stop speculating. I confirm I did. Happy? I just hope that you will not find yourself in such a situation. Shindwe.



IGANA.
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chemos
#29 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 4:40:00 AM
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it seems this will be true test to a marriage....
My biggest worry is that all this feels like a de javu... Experienced it in my childhood and trust me there was all manner of hell in our house...i think my parents grew so distant apart they resented each other... I promised myself that id never live away from my family when i got married but now it seems am on the same boat....been wondering maybe its Gods way of putting me to a test...Just hope hes got my back....


@wendz...
Thanks for the input.....Have u ever thought of starting ur own show...am sure ud make a killing and help people at the same time....
Picture this.....THE WENDZ SHOW.....sponsored by RICHOT Brandy.... On NTV mon-thur 6:30 pm....
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Mpenzi
#30 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 4:58:00 AM
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ati 'THE WENDZ SHOW.....sponsored by RICHOT Brandy' lol
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