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maka
#1 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 9:51:17 AM
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Howz the best way to deal with the loss of a loved one.Lost someone really close to me and I have reason to believe I havent accepted it...Whats the best way to deal with such?
possunt quia posse videntur
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Manyala
#2 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 10:02:32 AM
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@Maka,
Sincere condolences. Difficult to advise as nobody can feel what you are feeling. Only you feel the hurting.
But, one way of dealing with it is appreciating the time the Almight gave the 2 of you. Appreciate and thank the Almighty for the good times you shared.
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TiggerTiggy
#3 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 11:09:49 AM
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bereavement counselling helps.
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radio
#4 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 11:22:37 AM
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@Maka, please give it time! It will heal with time.
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Robinhood
#5 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 11:30:36 AM
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radio wrote:
@Maka, please give it time! It will heal with time.


May take too long. Counselling may help in dealing with this.

Pole sana @maka
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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selah
#6 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 12:03:34 PM
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let the tears drop..crying really helps...speaking from experience....Men always shy away from crying but Nothing heals faster than taking your time to cry and mourn over the departed.

Sorry for your loss.
'......to the acknowledgment of the mystery of God, and of the Father, and of Christ; 3 In whom are hid all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.' Colossians 2:2-3
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mnjoro
#7 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 12:05:02 PM
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Be prepared for it any time just as the Bible says always.
Pole lakini.
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Kirika
#8 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 12:08:19 PM
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My condolences to you for losing a loved one.

Weep, grieve and mourn, then release the departed.

In the fullness of time, you will come to realise that the departed are with us, only not in physical form.

Pole.
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karqui
#9 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 12:42:59 PM
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@maka, take heart as you go through the loss and pain.
As you have been told, when you feel like crying doing it without any hold back.Reminisce on the good times you shared and keep the good memories but most of all let go what has parted, and time will heal all wounds. All the best in the healing process.
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tycho
#10 Posted : Wednesday, April 25, 2012 1:41:30 PM
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Japanese haiku:

What are the clouds
But an excuse for the sky?
What is life,
But an escape from death?

Your mind must always be free.
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