I don't get this idea of getting trapped. Are you a human being or a wild animal?

if he feels he does not want to marry the woman, its ok.

All he needs is to organize for child support through an arbitrator e.g parents or village elders.

If thats not possible he can organise thru childrens department or children's court.
My advice is for him to initiate this as opposed to wait till the woman has received orders to get his 250k from his 8k salo.

If he lets the woman initiate this and she ends up wanting to settle some scores, he will end up Mr.Moi style with 250k per month payments yet he earns 8k per month.

If he controls the case, the magistrates/judges will be fair and will award a fair judgement to all parties.

@Foreman, now we know what you did last Christmas.

But don't worry it's not as serious as it seems.

This is too much Ado about nothing. Before you go into a spin make sure the child is yours and a DNA profiling can be done in Nbi. After confirmation that it is your clone then basi utajipanga (it depends on your standing in society and the size of the wallet) if you live from handouts then nothing will happen to you...the lady is to blame and will have to carry on.

A warning to the women in the house...if you go on having sex with people without mbele or nyuma at that point in time like students or whoever, you should realise that to the them sex is a short lived entertainment and the consequences of the entertainment may be your responsibility until things improve for the man.

Whose?
Say Forman's!