got this in NATION in response to this -

http://www.nation.co.ke/.../-/w6iikmz/-/index.html

"Gone are days when women used to chase men coz they have planted a seed in them and refusing to take responsibilty.Today play cool watch the guy, good looks health then lay him for the seed then let the bustard out of your life, When i got my job and i realised am stable all I nedded was a baby i went got one and the father has no idea to date but he suspects since my son is a duplicate of his firstborn GO women its our tym to call shots

we r a doomed lot i postulate!!

Wishful thinking.........

I think its all selfishness and self interest that has landed in full force among both men and women. I believe a complete family has a father and mother and kids.,..

Worse,...some do this,..get babies with men, take off and don't tell them, then when the going gets tough - like when the kid is starting high school, or university ..and the fees are really biting - they present themselves to the man and declare - 'Good Morning Dude, this here is your spawn, and he is now attending Brookhouse International School. Pay up please or its the courts and I break up your adorable, quaint little family ...'

Tired line....Zzzzzzzz!!

Why are we falling short of the glory of God. Every child deserves to be brought up by a father and mother (save for the case of widow & widower).
Why do we want to live the way God never intended. Why do some ladies think money and career is what a woman need to live a satisfying life.

exceptions ...the mufflers

That statement is incomplete, should read 'Women do not need men to provide'
The reason being even the one who wants to raise a child will still go to a man to get the spermatozoa, what has changed is the fact that with empowerment of women there is a class of women who would rather stay single and raise kids alone that have to Nyeri their husbands because they cannot provide for the family, live in the bar, has a string of women and kids all over the place, or is himself a batterer.
Two reasons that i personally believe warrant a woman leaving the husband
1. He beats you
2. He cheats on you (due to the fact that this endangers your life and health, otherwise our fore-parents lived with this and it was well)

Ni kujidanganya kusema you dont need a man or woman for that matter because you will still get someone to fulfill that need unless ofcourse you are gay, whether it is a bar-maid ama wale walikuwa wanafanya CSR Thika.....