@Chic20 I would say the same thing - the guy did the right thing to escape from the scene BUT,only if he went to seek help. running home and hiding to save his dear life leaving his friend makes him a rolling Kenchic right there. isnt it absurd that you can leave someone you love or even just a platonic friend in danger and only apologise later after confrontation? shouldnt he have sort help even from the men around? or with the security guards around? Would any man leave his sister with the thugs and run home only to say he woudnt have risked his life? Hapo,if you are looking for a friend,he aint a very very reliable friend... if you are looking for a husband in him - well,i would leave that for you to judge. Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

The last time I was accosted by thugs,i had my sister and my girlfriend with me.. The thugs came for me because i was the man... It is hard to judge a man because he ran,unless we understand the circumstances. They robbed us of everything,and let us go. It would be hard and difficult to leave my sister and my girlfriend and run,even i had a chance.. It would also have been hard to see sister/girlfriend being assaulted,when there is a sharp panga on your head.. do you become the hero,while you are dead? Or watch an assault on people you love yet you can do nothing? what happens if negotiating is not possible? Lessons: 1. Avoid situations where you put yourselves at risk,even if it means not going for that date,unless you have a vehicle/taxi all the way. 2. Being a man is hard..

was he man told by the thugs to leave or did he flee? anyway,I think the man shoul dhave stayed and pleaded. being man is not just about fighting,it is also about being wise,calm in crises and thinking quickly how to safely get out of such a situation. i think the lady got her answers rigth there; this is not quite the guy to be with. besides,i can bet it is the guy who proposed that they go out on a date. he should have stayed and bear the consequencies. each day is a gift from God; I dont know if I will be here tomorrow; should I be,I'll make the most of it for God's glory; should I be not,pick up and keep the legacy

these are all side issues...we are not like those comic book heroes ati superman,spiderman. if it was yours truly,the lady would have seen a cloud of dust as i did a Usain bolt out of there! the lady should base her decision on one thing and one thing alone .... ako na mchezo poa ama ni futhu futhu? if he knows his way to migingo then he should be scolded for running like a pussy,then the matter put to rest.... how else but by some mind blowing xxx..... its hard to find a 'good' man so might as well keep any good one you come across He who laughs last thinks slowest..

Pondi, Eti you would Bolt....??....Sasa wewe ni mwanaume ama ni long'i.....??......-:)) Yombo dhier....!!