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xtina
#1 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 12:46:00 PM
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After a date on Thursday,Girl and Man were accosted by thugs…… Guy managed to get away but Girl did not….. She gets assaulted but thank God no rape occurred…… Upon confrontation,Man says that it was unfair for Girl to expect him to risk his life and later apologized and says that will never happen again……..

Question is,how the heck does Girl make Man understand that just because rape didn’t happen doesn’t make it any less serious? He says that Girl is just being emotional…and was there anything wrong with Girl expecting Man to protect her?

Qsn 2 is…Since that incident,Man has been extra super nice and treats Girl way better than he used to….This is very very confusing…is this guilt or he is truly sorry?


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mtaalam
#2 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 12:55:00 PM
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Guilt,consolation,apology.

ili iwe funzo...
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Bareta
#3 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 12:56:00 PM
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This man failed in his core duty to offer security to his girl. And the fact that he deserted his girl at the hour of need is serious enough,whether or not rape occured. No question about that.

Being too nice is an attemt to redeem a guity conscience following the bluff. The true xter has been revealed.

Xtina,I hope this didn't happen to you!!!!
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Spendthrift
#4 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 1:01:00 PM
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The exact circumstances at the time of ambush by the thugs and what the guy did afterwards would be useful in determining whether in adversity,the guy acted right - the guy running away may even have saved the girl from being raped. These thugs do not rape because they want to have sex-rather to humiliate.

Otherwise,where bullets and guns are abound,there are no heroes.


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kizee
#5 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 1:03:00 PM
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@spendthrift

u tuk the words out of my mouth...ur one brave man..preapare for the oncoming onslaught
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Black Cat
#6 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 1:08:00 PM
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Ask Girl to leave that (wo)Man

His conscience is why he's acting nice




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TAZ
#7 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 1:13:00 PM
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As you've put it the 'guy managed to escape' meaning it wasn't an easy task. I don't understand why the guy should apologize to the lady for what happened..he is only human and not a super hero. In most cases men are always killed in such attacks regardless of their efforts.....the fact that this lady was not raped clearly indicates that she was not the prime target.

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Obi 1 Kanobi
#8 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 1:18:00 PM
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I am not sure but don't think I would run and leave a date at the mercy of thugs,but at the same time I can't blame someone for taking off,coz I suspect even if I didn't run,all I would help with is in sharing the assault.


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Pablo
#9 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 1:53:00 PM
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Hell yes.

Women want equality. Give it to them.

If its for the kids die fighting.


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willin2learn
#10 Posted : Monday, July 13, 2009 1:56:00 PM
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@ Xtina,

I would have done the same. No need to play Hero,risk death or permanent disability just to prove that you are 'man'.

My opinion..
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