Xtina.... I'm really sorry for what happened but don't you think you're being a bit selfish here??? You should be grateful that the guy was able to escape because unlike you he would not have been spared. We all react differently to certain situations..... life is too short to blend in

@Xtina, And he came to see you the following day?.......urgggggghhhh...!!....you can't be serious dear...!.That one is a relative of chickens......bure kabisa...!!.....Pole lakini...!! Yombo dhier....!!

….he said I was very lucky since I was ‘one of them’ and infact thanked me for ‘caring about Mathare kids’ I shudder to think what would have happened had the attackers not recognized you. I still support the guy bolting. Had he stayed he would have been a 'stranger' and since the thugs would have nothing to thank him for his fate would have been anything... Thank God it is not just any other gang that attacked you otherwise... Sorry for the misfortune though

This unfortunate incident brings to the fore something very interesting. How do women make decisions concerning their relationships? Regardless of how sophisticated or polished a lady may be,she is instictively helplessly attracted to the male machismo. It now suddenly makes sense why girls are attracted to bad boys. Men will fail in the eyes of women for things that they can never do anything about. Let me explain,in your day to day life you plan to please your woman by working hard and bringing home the bacon,provide her with a good home beautiful clothes a good car etc. Strive in spite of yourself to be kind and gentle and do all those things she says she likes but in no way,never in your wildest dream do you plan and plot how you will react in a frightening situation. You will react according to your nature,helplessly or heroically and for all that you may have done or will ever do,you will forever be judged by that one instance. Scary!!! Very scary!! Weusi wa nywele za mshtakiwa zaonyesha ujinga alio nao

Kusadikika hapo umenena,I echo your every word. smano