Before one gets into all this, one should realize that even the room itself, speaker placement (vertically and horizontally), and the furnishing will play a major role in the acoustics (normal curtains, for example, will absorb the high frequencies). Designing a room for the "perfect" home theater system quickly becomes outrageously expensive.
I would advise @jaggernaut to use @D32's advice (separate DVD and amp) based on what is available in Nakumatt (for example) if you just want decent sound. On the other hand, if you want perfection and can afford it, hire the services of a home theater designer (do we even have any here in Kenya?) who will, if you don't have a separate room, force you to completely change your living room as you'll be customizing the room to meet a very specific need....with the attendant costs.
I myself have been using a Sony system I bought 11 years ago attached to DSTV and a Pioneer DVD player bought 11 years ago via optical inputs. The sound is fine for the occasional 5.1 surround sound movie. No complaints here.
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