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lol just seen it and it appears he never paid the 10k. what was the bet about? there seems to have been another thread before the one you sent.

if you expect a a failed marriage you will get it; if you expect a good marriage, you will get one. in your case, i arge you to consider counselling, so you make informed decisions.

@Drunkard
Bro, I sincerely believe you lack wisdom.
I'm happily married and I'd marry my wife again over a million times.
The foundations of marriage matter a lot.

Psalm 127 - Unless the Lord builds a house the builders build in vain.

You must be the kind who build marriages and relationships based on their own heads. The Word of God, which you doubt, says unless the Lord builds your marriage you are doomed. And you, Drunkard are surely doomed.

"people stay in depressing relationships" - Maybe you. I'm not in a depressing relationship. I'm enjoying every bit of it, because it is not my power or might but the favor of the Lord.

"I am the primary custodian of me," - pride comes before a fall. Be careful.

"And for those who think there is pure love, I tell you, get broke today and your wife will definately change the way she treat you." - My wife earns 3 times my salo. She is employed and am in business. She knew this before we got married. She was my friend and I'd asked her to do my books.

How my marriage works? We have allowed God to be Lord over us. We married because that was the will of God. Currently, am heading to make more than her, though this doesn't matter to us because we count every income as a blessing from God not as "I am the primary custodian of me".

The two became one flesh. In fact, issues of money come to my mind when I see posts like this and maybe on Classic-Hopeless FM. Can i take pride in that? No. Not at all. I give all the glory to God. I'm a sinner but God is ever faithful and merciful.

Brother, the arm of flesh will eventually fail you. That one is certain. It is either you're with God or the devil. When the devil is done with you, He will, figuratively, ask you to jump over a balcony.

Seek ye first the kingdom of God. Seeking the kingdom has nothing to do with attending a local church or even tithing. It's about giving your life to Jesus Christ and allowing Him to be your Lord and Saviour.

If you have ears, you will hear. It is not wise learning from experience. It can be too costly. Humble yourself before future happenings humble you.

Proverbs 4:7 - Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.

You doubt the bible because, spiritual things can only be spiritually discerned.

1 Corinthians 2:14 - But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.

Unless you allow the Holy Spirit to guide you in understanding the bible, it will be the most useless book to you.

On marriage, unless God blesses something it is a bread of sorrow.
It is God who authored marriage, unless one plays by His rules, it will definately not work. You can't use a car radiator manual to clean the petrol tank!!

My Son, seek wisdom. It will help you.

@Drunkard
Yes, she does feel the same and also acts it. This happens to be so only because Jesus Christ is the Lord of our marriage and we use the bible as our guide and constitution. We both know that if we were to depart from Jesus Christ, our marriage would crumble pap! WE ARE NOT ANGELS.

Our marriage has not worked because of her good cooking, fulfilling sex, me treating her well or being faithful. Those are good things but they can't make a marriage work. It is the Lord Jesus Christ who has being the cornerstone of our marriage.

We are normal human beings just like you, meaning you can have a happy marriage too. We are not more blessed than any other couple. We just submit ourselves to Jesus Christ.

Bro, you can have a happy marriage. This is God's plan for your life:-

Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

Bro, Jesus loves you and is waiting for you to take a step towards Him and what am talking about my marriage won't sound strange anymore.