People like to pretend that getting married is a great thing. The other day, I had a conversation with my mother and she popped the question," when are you gonna get married," Honestly I wanted to tell her that that was was the dumbest question she has ever ask me but I held back.

Anyway, maybe it is just me, but the question is; it worthy to get married? Is marriage important? I know people will point at kids and say it is important so that someone can help raise kids, but what about if you can afford to hire a nanny and save oneself the misery of seeing an ageing woman sleeping next to you!

Don't get me wrong, I love women and I love kids, but I don't like the marriage arrangment and I know 80% of men don't, I know 90% of men get cold feet during their wedding and I know alot of married men who love the not married lifestyle. I have a 5 yr old son right now, I pay child support and I see him every evening for 2hrs and he stays in my place every other weekend, I also have a g/f who is 8 yrs younger than me and don't ask me how I spend my money and I don't have to call her if I don't feel like and when I am watching Football she stays away from my place, i will also replace her when I see someone else better, it is a perfect arrangement, why would I blow this up with a marriage?

Spot on!

wikuma wilika(loosely translated from original londokwe french as 'you are barking but you will still be bitten')
do what you want to do now but you will still marry when time comes.you will wander here and there but at the end of the day you will want to settle.ask any old man.
you will surely regret the years you wasted dillydallying on whether to marry or not.

better marry now and get used.your mum has foreseen this kijana.do what she is asking you to do.get a Good wife fast and treat her well,you will be amazed how happy you will be.

wacha ni rare nagonjwa nikapeane haki ya wenyewe.tuongee kesho.remember -Marry~ get a wife

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