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Kusadikika
#31 Posted : Saturday, January 14, 2012 11:24:24 PM
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tycho wrote:
@Kusadikika,

I am sorry about the words and thoughts expressed in my post to you.

The words are full of anger, and anger, is rooted in fear. These are violent words; and thus they cannot be of any profit to Man or God.

Paradoxically, your last post bears the answer to a problem that has haunted me for a very long time. I have followed your recommendations for a long time, and I have come to know that that cannot be the way. This way has cost me so much than you can imagine. Hence my pain and fear.

Yet by pointing out my innermost mind, you've let me see my mind from a distance. This is something I must be eternally grateful for. Thank you.


No problem at all my brother. You seek answers and when the question is as big and potent as sex you can be sure the answers are as varied as there are individuals here on wazua. The right answer will also vary in the same person from time to time depending on their experiences and their age and their religion and their mood and their marital status and their social status.......... in short, as many situations as any man or woman has been in will there be as many attitudes to sex. It is a journey of discovery. You have made no mistakes, you have just had unpleasant outcomes. Learn from them and move on. Sex is the most beautiful act God ever created and I think it is very unfortunate that it raises more feelings of shame and guilt rather than pleasure and love. I hope you find a way of enjoying it. The answer to what is right lies with you. Find it and live!!!!!!
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Kusadikika
#32 Posted : Saturday, January 14, 2012 11:32:54 PM
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[quote=Kaka M] @ Kusadikika Please this is extremely misleading, Assuming that you have or will have at one point a son who is around 14 figure out your 14 year old with a 39year old lady.(this from your earlier post.)

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A sexually maturing 14 year old boy would greatly benefit from the guidance of a wise 39 year old woman on sexual matters. I would strongly encourage such a union even for my son.
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tycho
#33 Posted : Saturday, January 14, 2012 11:33:20 PM
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@Kusadikika,

I am most grateful for your forgiveness. This is has been a most precious learning experience for me.
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tycho
#34 Posted : Saturday, January 14, 2012 11:44:57 PM
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[quote=Kusadikika][quote=Kaka M] @ Kusadikika Please this is extremely misleading, Assuming that you have or will have at one point a son who is around 14 figure out your 14 year old with a 39year old lady.(this from your earlier post.)

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A sexually maturing 14 year old boy would greatly benefit from the guidance of a wise 39 year old woman on sexual matters. I would strongly encourage such a union even for my son.


What is humanity? I see humanity as a flow of consciousness. The highest forms of consciousness being referred to as 'Spirituality.'

A boy of 14 would not be able to bear the Spiritual force from the woman. The most that the young man may enjoy is the orgasmic pleasure and any pleasure derived from stimulation of the 'lower' senses.

Then there is the psychoanilytic dimension that is to be considered: A 14 year old is just on the threshold of identity crises, and hence the total sexual experience may lead to severe complexes.
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