Understanding must be symbolized. Otherwise there is no communication. 'East or west home is best.'

Then, even if people can get understanding through non-verbal means, there is still the need to ask ourselves, 'what is the motive behind the non-verbalization of sex?' If the answer is 'because of shame' then even that which has been learned "non-verbally" is faulty.

If this statement is true, then, the relationship between a man and a woman is not balanced, and thus the 'loneliness' of the 'Man' is unquenched.

Unity will be compromised.

But tradition is that the two achieve unity!(Unity of what?)

Ladies and gentlemen, I must hasten to 'conclude' this debate (I hope I can!) by submiting the following observations and proposal:

If sex and sexuality have spiritual import, then it necessarily follows that the proper place of sexual education is in 'spiritual studies.'

This will help greatly in promoting respect for the human body and soul, and humanity will transform.

I believe that it is on this point that we can start to build a new state of being; conscious being. This consciousness will be the establishment of paradise here on earth.

We shall not have to worry about poverty,ignorance, or even disease. For we will have grasped eternity.

There will be world peace, if we comit ourselves to this transformation! Everything will be joy!

The power of Humanity lies in the 'Word', and if we get our relationships right, then we will definately speak the right Word.

And with this Word, this Unity, we will transform everything.

Let us introduce 'spiritual education in our schools' where students will learn about Man, and at the same time be acquainted with varieties of spiritual experience.

I need not belabor my point further, instead I should 'pen' off by thanking you all for your love, tolerance, and patience.

Find a good woman, an older intelligent woman and let her teach you how to love. You are ripe and ready.[/quote]

@ Kusadikika Please this is extremely misleading, Assuming that you have or will have at one point a son who is around 14 figure out your 14 year old with a 39year old lady.(this from your earlier post.)
I highly doubt that what tycho wants to know is about the actions themselves but reasons/meanings behind the actions.
As for if these things are taught, in some countries sex education is part of the normal school curriculum. However the most effective one's informal and practiced by different cultures( A number of Asian cultures do it.)
In African cultures(this is unfortunately reducing so fast) Girl's used to be taught by their grandma's and aunties how to treat a man generally and men would be taught as well by their dad's age-mates or people select for such purposes.
Sex is a very rich topic with alot to be learned and improved on so don't condemn @ tycho for wanting to know.
NB: Alot of the issues to be learned are different from the spiritual aspects I had mentioned earlier.

@ Tycho keep up the spirit hope you learn everything possible about sex and when the time comes you will be at your best, your spouse will thank you for it.
Spiritual studies in schools ain't the place to learn this as we differ in our beliefs about sex, the best place would be from some one whom you have the same faith.

@Kusadikika,

I am sorry about the words and thoughts expressed in my post to you.

The words are full of anger, and anger, is rooted in fear. These are violent words; and thus they cannot be of any profit to Man or God.

Paradoxically, your last post bears the answer to a problem that has haunted me for a very long time. I have followed your recommendations for a long time, and I have come to know that that cannot be the way. This way has cost me so much than you can imagine. Hence my pain and fear.

Yet by pointing out my innermost mind, you've let me see my mind from a distance. This is something I must be eternally grateful for. Thank you.

[quote=Kaka M] @ Kusadikika Please this is extremely misleading, Assuming that you have or will have at one point a son who is around 14 figure out your 14 year old with a 39year old lady.(this from your earlier post.)

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A sexually maturing 14 year old boy would greatly benefit from the guidance of a wise 39 year old woman on sexual matters. I would strongly encourage such a union even for my son.

[quote=Kusadikika][quote=Kaka M] @ Kusadikika Please this is extremely misleading, Assuming that you have or will have at one point a son who is around 14 figure out your 14 year old with a 39year old lady.(this from your earlier post.)



What is humanity? I see humanity as a flow of consciousness. The highest forms of consciousness being referred to as 'Spirituality.'

A boy of 14 would not be able to bear the Spiritual force from the woman. The most that the young man may enjoy is the orgasmic pleasure and any pleasure derived from stimulation of the 'lower' senses.

Then there is the psychoanilytic dimension that is to be considered: A 14 year old is just on the threshold of identity crises, and hence the total sexual experience may lead to severe complexes.