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tycho
#1 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 1:11:32 PM
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Being old enough to look behind, I am often filled with a sense of dread that I have had so little sex education, and more often than not I have had to go by trial and error, mimicking of western mannerisms from the movies and by and large, I have succumbed to lust and fantasy as my tutors.

But I also realize that sexuality is at the center of humanity. Freud speaks about it endlessly; the book of proverbs will almost bore one with warnings about the seductress, ditto the book of Wisdom. (Need I mention literature and tradition from the orient?)

And so I come to my question: Why is it that in the Kenyan context so little is taught by the relevant institutions? Is it a deliberate attempt to keep us in fetters?
Kaka M
#2 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 1:57:00 PM
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Among other things I tend think that the reason it ain't taught is that so many of us differ on various issues concerning Sex education.
If the Government were to develop a curricular, I expect it would consist of such things as: Contraception, Condoms,etc some religious institutions would have problems with this being taught because they don't agree with them. Some lobby groups would also want topics on homosexuality being taught etc. Generally it would be hard to agree on what to teach and what not to. There r various other reasons also.

If I may ask, what would you like to know?

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tycho
#3 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 2:25:32 PM
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@Kaka M

What would I like to know?

I'd like to know the significance of sex on my overall being and to the society.

What are the dynamics involved when a middle aged man(probably married) is seen luring a young girl in a club? What is the implication of older women scouting for young toy boys?

Our present culture glorifies the capping up of an orgasm with the spilling of the 'life force' even when reproduction is not intended. But there are cultures that teach people on 'sexual Kung-fu' the art of enjoying coitus without ejaculating. Is this an important difference?

What is the relation between coitus and love making?

Questions abound Kaka!
bwenyenye
#4 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 2:31:33 PM
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tycho wrote:
@Kaka M

What would I like to know?

I'd like to know the significance of sex on my overall being and to the society.

What are the dynamics involved when a middle aged man(probably married) is seen luring a young girl in a club? What is the implication of older women scouting for young toy boys?

Our present culture glorifies the capping up of an orgasm with the spilling of the 'life force' even when reproduction is not intended. But there are cultures that teach people on 'sexual Kung-fu' the art of enjoying coitus without ejaculating. Is this an important difference?

What is the relation between coitus and love making?

Questions abound Kaka!


That would have been taught in high school?d'oh! d'oh! d'oh! d'oh! d'oh! d'oh! d'oh! d'oh! d'oh!
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tycho
#5 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 2:44:59 PM
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@Bwenyenye,

Considering that the issue of sex entails a society's entire world view, I see no problem with these things being addressed in secondary school, or even upper primary.

In fact, I think that had we had better sex education then we'd be looking at the matters of AIDS, abortion, same sex relations and the such matters in a very different light.

By the way at what age do most Kenyans get into the sexual fray?
Kaka M
#6 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 3:54:13 PM
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I think you are looking at it from a philosophical point of view and rather broadly.
There is no universally accepted meaning or view of sex and can only be taught based a society that profess certain values.

I will therefore answer your question based on what I was taught.
My Faith teaches that Sex is supposed to be between a man and his wife ( they become man and wife only after wedding in church)
Actually the church ceremony is half a marriage and the couple perform the other half by meeting body to body and thus the marriage is whole. Sex has 2 purposes in a marriage being procreation and support of the couple by one another. The couple are supposed to be open to life meaning that there shall be no contraception and the only acceptable means of family planning is the natural method.
nostoppingthis
#7 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 3:56:01 PM
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Lack of teaching these things can actually kill as witnessed previously...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HN9Tqhc2OFY
tycho
#8 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 4:00:39 PM
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@Kaka,

How does sex foster between a couple?
tycho
#9 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 4:18:36 PM
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@Kaka,

Pardon the typo, but what I wanted to ask is:

How does sex foster support between a couple?
Kaka M
#10 Posted : Wednesday, January 11, 2012 4:30:15 PM
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tycho wrote:
@Kaka,

Pardon the typo, but what I wanted to ask is:

How does sex foster support between a couple?



So @ tycho made a typo error! pardoned.
Support is basically in terms of bodily needs (read pleasure)
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