Show me a happily married Man Nowadays and I will show you a Billion Married and Frustrated Men.......I think Marriage nowadays is only meant to ensure the human race doesn't disappear - and do that in a socially acceptable manner........otherwise..

Mpango Wa Kandos will never end coz picture this....a man works his ass out trying to feed,shelter and provide for a Woman,does everything including showering her with love and all.......but one day the woman transforms and becomes a madharau machine...what can the man do but to look for love elsewhere...who doesn't want to be loved......

Anyway we cannot condemn women wholesomely as that would be misguided and would include our own mothers who bore and bred us...but there is something very wrong about the majority of young women who are in existence today..

kwani unafikiri wanatolewa kwao na nini? si kwao kuna manyumba na chakula? landing is a common denominator.

wacha nikarare

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Many men have chickened-out from being real Godly men. They ignore the importance of relying on God for a spouse. They never approach the throne of mercy and grace with confidence and make their requests known to God. They rely on their own strength - the arm of the flesh which always fails. It is not the woman’s problem. It is the man solely to blame.

No man worth the title husband should demand respect or submission from the wife if he has not submitted to the authority of Jesus Christ. The same God who commanded the wife to submit to the husband is the very same God who commanded the husband to first submit to Him and also love the wife unconditionally, just as He loved the church.

A husband who does not love the wife the way Christ loves the church,to a point of dying for it, has no authority to demand any form of submission from her.

The chain of command is very clear: JESUS >HUSBAND > WIFE.
Not just : HUSBAND > WIFE.

Before a man asks if a woman is wife material he needs to ask himself if he is husband material.

A true man of God is not worried or concerned whether women are “taking up our positions,” because he already has his position secure in the Lord – be it at home, church, government or workplace.