Serikali,

wat would be so wrong if he took all those loans,he is able to pay his monthly installments comfortably and lives happily without bothering you!!!!

Big Problem: Most people think their definition of success is the universal one!!!!



Make money.....then you will enjoy all the fine things in life!!!

Wendz,

So then we shouldn't look at him as a person who has lost he plot just coz he aint doing it the way we see it.......watu wengine huokota pesa you know!!!!


Make money.....then you will enjoy all the fine things in life!!!

The fact that you know you are not wealthy and you want to change the status means you are already into something.Consider applying the principles of abundance and you will find attracting exactly that.

Here is how you do it
1. To look wealthy you have to dress the part. Shop in gieacons(gikomba deacons) and get to know some of the sellers. You can get good suits quite cheaply and other apparels suits,loafers that make you look good. This does not have to break the budget.
2. Appearance has to go with a good fragrance. Get good and wealthy smelling colognes not the fake somali puke inducing smells. You can get a hook up but dont be afraid to spend $ on the cologne.
3. Always be courteous. A smile goes a long way. Example the secretary will always have access to your competitors proposals to her boss. That smile you always gave her and the courteous nod will make it all easier to get access to the proposals for you to undercut them. PS: the little guys usually have unlimited access to information like bird man who thugged email address from his employer.
4. Knowledge is power,is an overstated cliche but is 100% true.
5. Learn people's levels. When talking to future clients/employers do not understate your abilities and the same applies to your C.V. Example the time you were lounging during university breaks dont forget how passionate you were in assisting people of your village and how these taught you and gave you manegerial skills at an early age in organizing people and helped the local farmer increase turnover from 20 k to 35k by using your manegerial prowess and accounting skills ....... at which time you were farming your family shamba
These are some small things you can apply to change your fortunes

SK A.L.U.M.N.I (Alcoholic Liason and Undergarments Manager of Nakedness Internationally)

Perception is greater than reality


Nobody gives serious money to someone with no money


...so fake it till you make it

@Tony Stark - you've nailed it. Those are the building blocks.

Just to add on from where tony left off:


Associate with people with big networks or just good networking skills. You are bound to learn more about brushing shoulders with the elite and also probably meet some well connected fellows
If your employed - dress better than your boss's boss (but on a budget) you are bound to get some attention
Be confident and polish your language. If your speaking English let it be English and not a sheng-swahili hybrid.

Go for events that will make you meet new people and when your there sell yourself...talk about what you've done and what your currently doing,share your experiences in light of the new people you've met. Frankly,ambitious people want to associate with other ambitious people