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chemos
#21 Posted : Monday, November 07, 2011 3:33:27 PM
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Joined: 11/28/2006
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Kaka M wrote:
Now that you are both ladies, and you are not likely to be more qualified that your boss, the problem is either, she ain't happy that it was your idea to create a department. This is not likely though. The most likely reasons are the looks department.
R you hotter than your boss in terms of looks,hair legs etc? If yes thats the problems.
If not then you jamaa colleagues r friendly with you and not with her. Ama umeget attention ya someone who used to give attention to her?
Thirdly, maybe you are being picked and dropped by a hubby/ boyfie who has a bigger car than hers or her hubby's. Or he is so hot so she is envious.
Or r you driving a bigger car yourself?
If its jealous coming out of things different from work you maybe better off going to the older department.
But try your best with your job, and keep the boss in the know periodically and work hard to be the best.
Wish u all the best.







Kaka kweli wewe umeona mengi...
Blackcobra can u confirm if any of the above is correct...
bwenyenye
#22 Posted : Wednesday, November 09, 2011 11:03:30 AM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 5/24/2007
Posts: 1,805
I may sound chauvinistic but I have observed that many women can handle responsibility very well but not power! Something womanish just gets in the way.. It could be anything, looks, dressing,cars, attention anything! Once you understand that, then you can adjust yourself accordingly.
I Think Therefore I Am
Stealth
#23 Posted : Wednesday, November 09, 2011 11:45:58 AM
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Joined: 5/3/2010
Posts: 145
Location: East Africa
@ Blackcobra - Judge yourself honestly. If you r working as u shud, reporting/communicating as u shud and being respectful to your superiors as you shud then u r Ok. The problem is with your boss, she may have Low self esteem- considering u suggested the new dept n not her. Keep working hard and honestly with time someone above her will notice the work you do. Keep working.
Euge
#24 Posted : Wednesday, November 09, 2011 1:03:59 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 8/4/2008
Posts: 2,849
Location: Rupi
chemos wrote:
Kaka M wrote:
Now that you are both ladies, and you are not likely to be more qualified that your boss, the problem is either, she ain't happy that it was your idea to create a department. This is not likely though. The most likely reasons are the looks department.
R you hotter than your boss in terms of looks,hair legs etc? If yes thats the problems.
If not then you jamaa colleagues r friendly with you and not with her. Ama umeget attention ya someone who used to give attention to her?
Thirdly, maybe you are being picked and dropped by a hubby/ boyfie who has a bigger car than hers or her hubby's. Or he is so hot so she is envious.
Or r you driving a bigger car yourself?
If its jealous coming out of things different from work you maybe better off going to the older department.
But try your best with your job, and keep the boss in the know periodically and work hard to be the best.
Wish u all the best.







Kaka kweli wewe umeona mengi...
Blackcobra can u confirm if any of the above is correct...



Kaka nailed it. I stand to be collected.
Lord, thank you!
2012
#25 Posted : Wednesday, November 09, 2011 2:05:52 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 12/9/2009
Posts: 6,592
Location: Nairobi
Believe me, if your boss is frustrating you instead of helping you or doing his/her work it's because he/she is threatened by you. So maybe you should take it as a compliment and if the harassment goes overboard then it's time to escalate it to her head and even resign.

BBI will solve it
:)
Sure
#26 Posted : Wednesday, November 09, 2011 2:10:51 PM
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Joined: 9/9/2010
Posts: 546
Location: Garissa
blackcobra wrote:
Thanks all for the bright ideas. First things first...
1. I am a woman and my boss s a woman
5. She is not worth any rudeness.... nor fight from me... i cant stoop that low. Maybe she wants to push me to the wall and see how far i can get.
6. She keeps reminding that the senior boss is saying that i do not work. I know the senior boss too well to know that's a lie... he can communicate to me directly.

I am left with 1 option... avoiding her completely, including not attending any meetings which she s in......

Outcome: the operations are paralyzed!!!!

God just needs to come personally before i lose it all!!!!


@Blackcobra

You seem to have an attitude problem. For a woman/girl, calling yourself blackcobra right here is a sign of engraved attitude problems within you. You are suppressing your femininity and trying to be hardheaded. That will take you nowhere. Use of intelligence gives better results instead of attitudes.

Avoiding an individual cauze you have clashed at the work place is a sign of immaturity on your part. It means you cannot make a good mother for your children, not compatible with a marriage partner and simply so much into yourself you need to outsource your spiritual, career and social needs.

Do what your boss is asking you to do and see if you will die.

You want God to come to you personally? God gave you intelligence to solve most of the problems human beings are likely to encounter. Use it and God will be pleased with you. God is too busy having to deal with the evil men do in the world to have time for a wining girl in a woman's body.

I have no ill feelings towards a sister. So, for a worthwhile cause, search for the book, "The Peter Principle" By Lawrence Peter and Raymond Hull. You will be greatfull to came here where school of hard knocks has taught us something no one will ever offer for free.


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blackcobra
#27 Posted : Thursday, November 10, 2011 11:10:56 AM
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Joined: 1/7/2010
Posts: 68
Location: kenya
@ Sure.....Shame on you Shame on you Shame on you Shame on you

Please pray hard that the same doesnot happen to someone you know/ care about.

I would wish to get your comment then
lovely2010
#28 Posted : Thursday, November 10, 2011 11:21:39 AM
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Joined: 10/25/2010
Posts: 519
Location: nairobi
I have such a boss, but I started giving her the Onyancha look, somehow she pretends to be nice...tunaheshimiana...
Dash
#29 Posted : Thursday, November 10, 2011 11:28:56 AM
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Joined: 3/24/2010
Posts: 677
Location: Nairobi


@Blackcobra

You seem to have an attitude problem. For a woman/girl, calling yourself blackcobra right here is a sign of engraved attitude problems within you. You are suppressing your femininity and trying to be hardheaded. That will take you nowhere. Use of intelligence gives better results instead of attitudes.

Avoiding an individual cauze you have clashed at the work place is a sign of immaturity on your part. It means you cannot make a good mother for your children, not compatible with a marriage partner and simply so much into yourself you need to outsource your spiritual, career and social needs.

Do what your boss is asking you to do and see if you will die.

You want God to come to you personally? God gave you intelligence to solve most of the problems human beings are likely to encounter. Use it and God will be pleased with you. God is too busy having to deal with the evil men do in the world to have time for a wining girl in a woman's body.

I have no ill feelings towards a sister. So, for a worthwhile cause, search for the book, "The Peter Principle" By Lawrence Peter and Raymond Hull. You will be greatfull to came here where school of hard knocks has taught us something no one will ever offer for free.


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@sure
So she should call herself "miss preety in pink dress" to prove she does not have an attitude problem? Shame on you Shame on you Shame on you

I agree with @Kaka M, it could be a problem with your boss. As someone has stated sometimes women and power are not good combinations
accelriskconsult
#30 Posted : Thursday, November 10, 2011 12:42:25 PM
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Joined: 4/2/2011
Posts: 629
Location: Nai
lovely2010 wrote:
I have such a boss, but I started giving her the Onyancha look, somehow she pretends to be nice...tunaheshimiana...



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