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Rank: Member Joined: 1/22/2011 Posts: 193 Location: nairobi
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Socket's view:
Why would i super glue myself to a guy?
= He is the most eligible guy left in my sphere,
= He is extravagantly rich, nice, or
= His Pine tree works wonders
= or many other mundane reasons like him having a good-for-nothing ugly girlfriend so in the hope of saving the guy from eternal misery; i stick around in the hope that he will wake up from his nightmare and come running back to me.
so to unglue himself; the guy should:
1. Burn/cut all bridges-
2. conveniently "relocate" to America(av heard of a guy who did that)
2. get a hotter girlfriend than the chic
3. if you cant do any of the above-identify the reason why this chic is around and act in the opposite way.
Above all- keep your cool and dont send any signal like calling, texting, chatting, sending emails etc. after like 5 years, the chic will have moved on.
Forget about the friendship part- aren't there other people around you who can be your friends?
MOVE ON
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Rank: Member Joined: 9/9/2010 Posts: 784 Location: ant hill - red hill
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Wendz wrote:safariant wrote:Njung'e wrote:Print two copies of this comments.You know whom to give. *** Apart from Wendz which is too harsh, not sure how he can be helped Ok. let me try to be polite..... eeeeeeh i have no words. but lets just say, your friend is the one with a problem here... i don't think he is ready for a break-up... the "long time relationship" thing'i is just a hook he is hanging on not to let go... seriously. Until he decides what he wants with his life, i don't think there is any amount of advise that can help him. But if the lady was my daughter, she'd be nursing some belt "whacks" for letting someone, who doesn't know what he wants with his life, waste her time! Seriously! *** That's assuming he was ever interested in her for a relationship. The guy knows what he wants and the lady is not it, The greatest act of bravery is chancing a fart while suffering from diarrhoea
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2007 Posts: 8,776 Location: Cameroon
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mlefu wrote:i told mine i own 19000 Neveready shares which i bought at 19 bob....i showed her the statement..the only thing left is a bridge..ile ya maombi  Hehehee ulifaa kuwekerewa rungu ya kishwa. TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 12/23/2010 Posts: 1,229
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safariant wrote:Wendz wrote:safariant wrote:Njung'e wrote:Print two copies of this comments.You know whom to give. *** Apart from Wendz which is too harsh, not sure how he can be helped Ok. let me try to be polite..... eeeeeeh i have no words. but lets just say, your friend is the one with a problem here... i don't think he is ready for a break-up... the "long time relationship" thing'i is just a hook he is hanging on not to let go... seriously. Until he decides what he wants with his life, i don't think there is any amount of advise that can help him. But if the lady was my daughter, she'd be nursing some belt "whacks" for letting someone, who doesn't know what he wants with his life, waste her time! Seriously! *** That's assuming he was ever interested in her for a relationship. The guy knows what he wants and the lady is not it, You never said - what would you have done?
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/26/2011 Posts: 759
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..... I think my interest come first before anyone's else, tell you friend to the the girl, it is over period! Why have a sleepless night trying to build strategies to dumb someone, breaking up shouldn't be hard, I have broken up with women so many times that I always know how long the relationship is going to last from the first kiss, come on guys! That woman probably don't want him too!
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Rank: Chief Joined: 3/24/2010 Posts: 6,779 Location: Black Africa
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Rollout wrote:..... I think my interest come first before anyone's else, tell you friend to the the girl, it is over period! Why have a sleepless night trying to build strategies to dumb someone, breaking up shouldn't be hard, I have broken up with women so many times that I always know how long the relationship is going to last from the first kiss, come on guys! That woman probably don't want him too! Wewe ni mzii! GOD BLESS YOUR LIFE
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/22/2008 Posts: 2,723
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safariant wrote:How do you dismiss a lady who refuses to go, despite you making it clear, and without burning the bridges?
I need to give this advice to a friend in a spot of bother. I empathise with the situation. There are situations when the girl will refuse to hear or will make it impossible for you to say what you mean. This is where you result to the best communication tool ever invented for communicating effectively and with clarity, the SMS: Waitherero, I don't like you any more for the following reasons: I have found another girl I like more, you talk too much, you are fat, you are kichwa ngumu among other reasons. I would however like to keep the option of having sex with you once in a while when my new girlfriend has her bad moods or when I will be between girlfriends after I dump her.See! short,easy, clear. Hit send and go on to order another beer. PS: It will also be easy to ascertain the cause of death in case your friends body is found with multiple knife, scratch or bite wounds.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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safariant wrote:Wendz wrote:safariant wrote:Njung'e wrote:Print two copies of this comments.You know whom to give. *** Apart from Wendz which is too harsh, not sure how he can be helped Ok. let me try to be polite..... eeeeeeh i have no words. but lets just say, your friend is the one with a problem here... i don't think he is ready for a break-up... the "long time relationship" thing'i is just a hook he is hanging on not to let go... seriously. Until he decides what he wants with his life, i don't think there is any amount of advise that can help him. But if the lady was my daughter, she'd be nursing some belt "whacks" for letting someone, who doesn't know what he wants with his life, waste her time! Seriously! *** That's assuming he was ever interested in her for a relationship. The guy knows what he wants and the lady is not it, If it is this clear, then tell it to her exactly what you have put it here.... If she can't get it after this sentence, you will need to do as Querry said... the relocating to "america" bit.... Most importantly, stop any landing rights even if they are served fresh from the bakery and you've just come back from some corner in Cambodia where they grow no wheat... they send confusing signals because women interpret landings very differently from men.
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Rank: Member Joined: 9/9/2010 Posts: 784 Location: ant hill - red hill
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Wendz why you addressing me... the messanger? The greatest act of bravery is chancing a fart while suffering from diarrhoea
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/24/2007 Posts: 1,805
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safariant wrote:Wendz why you addressing me... the messanger? Wewe... You need to MAN up! Hata you cannot say it is you yet you have so much details of the relationship!  Move on and always remember.. "ukiiticha shakura arafu ambandiriche fikira, jua utaripa!! Shakura hairudichwi! Kwahifyo.. usiitiche hata kiojo!!! I Think Therefore I Am
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