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Dmitrys
#21 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 12:38:43 PM
Rank: New-farer

Joined: 9/29/2011
Posts: 22
Location: Nairobi
Lakini si bado unaenderea kuuma??? Why do you continue landing there when you are meant to be out of the country. Maybe try hiting on her best friend.
Wendz
#22 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 12:40:01 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 6/19/2008
Posts: 4,268
safariant wrote:
Njung'e wrote:
Print two copies of this comments.You know whom to give.

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Apart from Wendz which is too harsh, not sure how he can be helped


Ok. let me try to be polite..... eeeeeeh i have no words.

but lets just say, your friend is the one with a problem here... i don't think he is ready for a break-up... the "long time relationship" thing'i is just a hook he is hanging on not to let go... seriously. Until he decides what he wants with his life, i don't think there is any amount of advise that can help him.

But if the lady was my daughter, she'd be nursing some belt "whacks" for letting someone, who doesn't know what he wants with his life, waste her time! Seriously!
KADUSI
#23 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 12:53:21 PM
Rank: Member

Joined: 4/18/2008
Posts: 51
The friend can bring in another chick to stay with her and the lady will be out pap.


mukiha
#24 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 1:14:11 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 6/27/2008
Posts: 4,114
Wendz wrote:
safariant wrote:
Njung'e wrote:
Print two copies of this comments.You know whom to give.

***
Apart from Wendz which is too harsh, not sure how he can be helped


Ok. let me try to be polite..... eeeeeeh i have no words.

but lets just say, your friend is the one with a problem here... i don't think he is ready for a break-up... the "long time relationship" thing'i is just a hook he is hanging on not to let go... seriously. Until he decides what he wants with his life, i don't think there is any amount of advise that can help him.

But if the lady was my daughter, she'd be nursing some belt "whacks" for letting someone, who doesn't know what he wants with his life, waste her time! Seriously!


Kunyua mbili Wendz.

If that guy was my son, I would remove him from my will. He is an embarrassment to huMANity.

@Safariant; tell him to tell her it's over. Forget about bridges. What purpose are they meant to serve?
Nothing is real unless it can be named; nothing has value unless it can be sold; money is worthless unless you spend it.
jjred
#25 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 1:28:21 PM
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Joined: 3/29/2011
Posts: 63
Just tell her the truth coz she deserve a better person.It will hurt but she shall overcome,hope she does not habour bitternes,she will be able to heal so fast
jjred
#26 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 1:39:55 PM
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Joined: 3/29/2011
Posts: 63
From experience,i think the problem with this lady is she thinks she will not get any good man out there,she think her world would come to an end.But when i made up my mind that i will live a happy life with or without any man beside me.I did not go sleeping with any Tom ,Dick & Hurry coz i have been disappointed in life,i chilled,and serious men who are not after sex started coming my way,it was me to choose.....if only the lady was next to me,i could have wispered to her ears..."let it go,its counterfeit,allow God to bring a genuine one in your life,dont waste any time the earlier you let go the better and you will not regrate it"
Burning Spear
#27 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 2:46:20 PM
Rank: Veteran

Joined: 7/22/2008
Posts: 1,139
@thuraku aka safariant,

you cant dump her if you are still landing.
"You're not supposed to be so blind with patriotism that you can't face reality. Wrong is wrong, no matter who says it". Malcolm X
Robinhood
#28 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 3:57:33 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 12/11/2008
Posts: 2,306
Burning Spear wrote:
@thuraku aka safariant,

you cant dump her if you are still landing.


He wants the rights minus the obligations
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
Jus Blazin
#29 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 4:11:01 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 10/23/2008
Posts: 3,966
@safariant, ambia 'your friend', bridges get burned. Zingine are brought down when superhighways are being constructed. If there comes a time to move on, a time could be now. Unless he's not wise, he should have closed this chapter long time ago. Yeye anataka kuwa friends with benefits. It wont work.
Luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity. ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca
Wodu Wakiri
#30 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 5:02:18 PM
Rank: Member

Joined: 8/13/2009
Posts: 62
safariant wrote:
How do you dismiss a lady who refuses to go, despite you making it clear, and without burning the bridges?
I need to give this advice to a friend in a spot of bother.




Buy her an Arsenal shirt. She'll be out of there like a bat out of hell...
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