jjred wrote:Two years ago we were in a relationship with this guy called mr.X. Then as we were preparing for our wedding realized that the guy was unfaithful to me. I found him two times with his ex-girl friend in his rooms. Since i did not want to cause any drama returned his wedding ring and told him to marry a lady of his choice.
He was frank enough and told me that he will not marry the lady i found him with who was from western but will marry one from eastern.
This one proved that he had a number of ladies in his life which he didn’t deny but pretended that it’s the ladies who are chasing after him.
At this point, i just thank the Almighty for having revealed this character at the right time. Though i was hurt very much, i decided to move on.
Unfortunately, a baby was conceived during the time we were together and he told me to abort decided to carry the baby to terms but 8 months down the line he called to find out whether i aborted now have a wonderful baby girl and decided never to bother him with anything since he promised that he will never support the baby.
He works in Sudan but whenever he comes back to Kenya, he bothers me so much and causes a lot of drama. What do i do with such a person? All i need is peace, burying my past and moving on but when he resurrect the whole issue, he takes me back to Misiri
"we were preparing for our wedding"...what do you mean by preparing? So you caught him with his ex-girlfriend and you even had time to discuss who he prefers, Mluhya ama Mkamba. I think you were not as special as you thought, just one of his many girlfriends but unfortunately or fortunately for him you got knocked up. The fact that you have his baby means he'll always be in your life directly or indirectly.... Too bad we'll never get to hear the guy's side of the story. Btw you haven't told us what the guy does when he cmes back from Sudan that bothers you so much.
I have a question for you, if the guy decided to support HIS baby now what would be your response?