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Rank: Member Joined: 7/17/2008 Posts: 478 Location: Old Trafford
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McReggae wrote:Maybe ne wants ninio thus calling him a brother is a deterrent  my sisto oh!
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Rank: User Joined: 8/6/2010 Posts: 594
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Wendz wrote:People, what's up with guys not liking this word? Like, if you respond to a guy "yes, my brother"... and he doesn't want to be called "brother"? Ati "don't call me 'brother'.... am not your brother'....... I mean, seriously,... someone is just trying to be polite here.... How would you like it if I call you 'Mother'? I mean, why misuse a term which carries a lot of wait. I was called a certain lady 'Mama' and she went bananas. "Mimi ni mama yako, huna hadabu", she reeved for all to hear. So, I have a policy, never use a term on someone you are not familiar with. Actually, when you teach your kids to call the house girl 'Auntie', you are devaluing the status of the real Aunt to the kids. So, when the real Aunt comes around, she is looked down as another irrelevant lady in the house.  "One man gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty. A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed." Rev Canon Karanja.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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Insurgent wrote: Actually, when you teach your kids to call the house girl 'Auntie', you are devaluing the status of the real Aunt to the kids. So, when the real Aunt comes around, she is looked down as another irrelevant lady in the house.
Maybe you need to stop treating the domestic manager as an irrelevant lady. 
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 761 Location: Nairobi
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Lolest! wrote:Insurgent wrote: Actually, when you teach your kids to call the house girl 'Auntie', you are devaluing the status of the real Aunt to the kids. So, when the real Aunt comes around, she is looked down as another irrelevant lady in the house.
Maybe you need to stop treating the domestic manager as an irrelevant lady. What about 'boss'. I once called a colleague who is at my level 'boss' and he was like...kwani av become ur boss?? When I admire the wonder of a sunset or the beauty
of the moon, my soul expands in worship of the Creator.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/16/2009 Posts: 1,464
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McReggae wrote:Maybe ne wants ninio thus calling him a brother is a deterrent This is most likely the case sister Wendz
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/9/2007 Posts: 420 Location: Nairobi
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Insurgent wrote:Wendz wrote:People, what's up with guys not liking this word? Like, if you respond to a guy "yes, my brother"... and he doesn't want to be called "brother"? Ati "don't call me 'brother'.... am not your brother'....... I mean, seriously,... someone is just trying to be polite here.... How would you like it if I call you 'Mother'? I mean, why misuse a term which carries a lot of wait. I was called a certain lady 'Mama' and she went bananas. "Mimi ni mama yako, huna hadabu", she reeved for all to hear. So, I have a policy, never use a term on someone you are not familiar with. Actually, when you teach your kids to call the house girl 'Auntie', you are devaluing the status of the real Aunt to the kids. So, when the real Aunt comes around, she is looked down as another irrelevant lady in the house. this is so true my 3year old cannot undersand why my sister is her antie....she asked whether she will bath andwash her clothes
Opinion is free, truth is sacred.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/29/2007 Posts: 948
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Marty wrote:Lolest! wrote:[quote=Insurgent] Actually, when you teach your kids to call the house girl 'Auntie', you are devaluing the status of the real Aunt to the kids. So, when the real Aunt comes around, she is looked down as another irrelevant lady in the house.
Maybe you need to stop treating the domestic manager as an irrelevant lady. What about 'boss'. I once called a colleague who is at my level 'boss' and he was like...kwani av become ur boss??[/quote] i also dont like it!! @Wendz, did you try magigi's advise? magigi wapi diary?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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wanyuru wrote:Marty wrote:Lolest! wrote:[quote=Insurgent] Actually, when you teach your kids to call the house girl 'Auntie', you are devaluing the status of the real Aunt to the kids. So, when the real Aunt comes around, she is looked down as another irrelevant lady in the house.
Maybe you need to stop treating the domestic manager as an irrelevant lady. What about 'boss'. I once called a colleague who is at my level 'boss' and he was like...kwani av become ur boss??[/quote] i also dont like it!! @Wendz, did you try magigi's advise?magigi wapi diary? will try it next time...  
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 3/29/2011 Posts: 63
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Lolest! wrote:Insurgent wrote: Actually, when you teach your kids to call the house girl 'Auntie', you are devaluing the status of the real Aunt to the kids. So, when the real Aunt comes around, she is looked down as another irrelevant lady in the house.
Maybe you need to stop treating the domestic manager as an irrelevant lady. @Ins Please know that these people ,the house manager reaaly deserve respect and honour,dont joke with them,they means alot to your life,they dont even deserve to be called Aunt,i introduce mine as my dota coz she is good and her work is good
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/31/2009 Posts: 743
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jjred wrote:Lolest! wrote:Insurgent wrote: Actually, when you teach your kids to call the house girl 'Auntie', you are devaluing the status of the real Aunt to the kids. So, when the real Aunt comes around, she is looked down as another irrelevant lady in the house.
Maybe you need to stop treating the domestic manager as an irrelevant lady. @Ins Please know that these people ,the house manager reaaly deserve respect and honour,dont joke with them,they means alot to your life,they dont even deserve to be called Aunt,i introduce mine as my dota coz she is good and her work is good dota...eish thats taking it too far!! mtazoeana..... just call her by her name I believe they all have!!
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