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safariant
#1 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 10:03:55 AM
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How do you dismiss a lady who refuses to go, despite you making it clear, and without burning the bridges?
I need to give this advice to a friend in a spot of bother.
The greatest act of bravery is chancing a fart while suffering from diarrhoea
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Magigi
#2 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 10:09:49 AM
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Location: Kenya
safariant wrote:
How do you dismiss a lady who refuses to go, despite you making it clear, and without burning the bridges?
I need to give this advice to a friend in a spot of bother.


@Safariant
...Usiwe kama @Drunkard...There is always a price to pay. Kama urikura utaripa...
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aemathenge
#3 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 10:13:09 AM
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Starting with the truth would be in order.

Wazuans have little patience with this "Friend" business.
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Elder
#4 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 10:15:00 AM
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aemathenge wrote:
Starting with the truth would be in order.

Wazuans have little patience with this "Friend" business.

Tell him. He needs to own up to his woes. Na sasa amekura na hataki kuripa?
He who can express in words the ardour of his love, has but little love to express. - Petrach, Son. (That men by various ways arrive at the same end. - Montaigne, The Essays of.)
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chemos
#5 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 10:15:03 AM
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si wewe ni siafu.. muume mpaka aende kabisa... uma hadi hizo petals zake..
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Kaka M
#6 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 10:36:17 AM
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safariant wrote:
How do you dismiss a lady who refuses to go, despite you making it clear, and without burning the bridges?
I need to give this advice to a friend in a spot of bother.



According to one school of thought, if a lady wants u to marry her you may have limited options of doing otherwise. Considering that your friend doesn't want to burn bridges it appears there is room for dialogue otherwise why keep the bridges?

If your friend is determined though to take off, block those bridges for long enough for her to move then at a future date when she is no longer interested he'll see whether to contact her.
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carygoh
#7 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 10:41:33 AM
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safariant wrote:
How do you dismiss a lady who refuses to go, despite you making it clear, and without burning the bridges?
I need to give this advice to a friend in a spot of bother.


the truth .........atanuna one week then maisha iendelee...............unless when he was landing he implied there was something more than kusaidiana, like instead of saying oh yes...........he said i will marry you.women never forget
Think Positive Test Negative
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mlefu
#8 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 10:42:15 AM
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i told mine i own 19000 Neveready shares which i bought at 19 bob....i showed her the statement..the only thing left is a bridge..ile ya maombiPray
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Robinhood
#9 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 10:43:35 AM
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Joined: 12/11/2008
Posts: 2,306
Elder wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
Starting with the truth would be in order.

Wazuans have little patience with this "Friend" business.

Tell him. He needs to own up to his woes. Na sasa amekura na hataki kuripa?


@safariant, I would have given you some advice before you jumped in, now its just my sympathy.

Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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safariant
#10 Posted : Friday, October 28, 2011 11:03:13 AM
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aemathenge wrote:
Starting with the truth would be in order.

Wazuans have little patience with this "Friend" business.

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The friend told me that the truth was said, there was a period of no communication then she comes back and starts all over again, in hope that he will change his mind.
He cant her off because of longtime friendship.
The greatest act of bravery is chancing a fart while suffering from diarrhoea
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