Rank: Elder Joined: 6/27/2008 Posts: 4,114
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Magigi wrote:Wendz wrote:Burning Spear wrote:There are so many gold diggers surrounding us,may it be men or men but women have proved to be the worst and majority.
Why do such people think that they can only be provided for. Parasites if I may use such a word. Reminds me of a girl friend I dropped like its hot for being lazy (in the mind)and believing in handouts.She was a drop dead gorgeous lady though but without brains. BS, do not misuse the word "provide". It is the duty of a man to provide for his family or should i say, for his woman if there are no children yet. Its a God given duty. Nothing more, nothing less... however, because of the economic times we are living in, it is not enough that only a man can provide for the family, and so, God gives him a HELPER.... remember, your wife is not the provider... she is the helper... some HELPERS provide more than what the PROVIDER can.... that doesnt change the fact that we have only one PROVIDER - unless he is relegated or is not there altogether.... Unfortunately, some women are not very good in their duty as helpers..... some pull the providers down, but if you are lucky, you get a huge boost.... so there you have it. @Calla - am hoping @BS had not already had his bag full of gold in some other quarters when he realised someone was still digging....(on a light note BS ;-) @Wendz ...Take my my high 5!!! But that Bible verse should not be used when it suits you guys... How do you provide for a woman/lady/mistress/girlfriend who is not submissive? @Magigi: It does not say that you provide only when she submits... The providing part is unconditional; but so is the submission. Each instruction is give separately. I guess this is one of the reasons why men and women have separate rooms in the mosques... so that they can get their unconditional instructions separately... Nothing is real unless it can be named; nothing has value unless it can be sold; money is worthless unless you spend it.
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