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MEN............ IS THIS FAIR
nwamaina
#1 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 8:40:19 AM
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Fellow Wazuans..who will tell our women that having a job and earning a salary does not mean that they throw their decency to the wind as that always backfires on them...I was subjected to this unsolicited bendover treatment by a senior female employee somewhere..she had the audacity to bend-over a few feet from me and yenyewe macho hayana pasia,what can a man do ohh..this left little to the imagination...pic is edited to avoid a disaster..sometimes i understand and admire our Muslim women who have some sort of decency left in them,our Kenyan women wamepotea kabisa...is this fair really...I just had to snap the dumb *ss..Shame on you Shame on you
ali
#2 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 9:00:07 AM
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I was expecting a link, or a picture. Bt stop blanket condemnation of women, our spouses work and they don't have what you describe here. And if she bent, you should have looked aside or walked away, remember what joseph did in egypt ages ago? Your post says more by what you have not written as compared by what you have. There is little or no relationship between gender morals and, economic/career power...and don't confuse me with a supporter of feminism or affirmative action. I hate both.
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nwamaina
#3 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 9:36:14 AM
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@ali thanks for your sentiments,but I beg to ask, do you say that,we men should bury our heads in the sand and act as if nothing is happening......
It is in no way a blanket condemnation,we have female friends,relatives,leaders who are very decent and good role models in our society but my opinion is these are fast becoming an endangered species...more sentiments from CSK please
kingfisher
#4 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 9:51:12 AM
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nwamaina wrote:
Fellow Wazuans..who will tell our women that having a job and earning a salary does not mean that they throw their decency to the wind as that always backfires on them...I was subjected to this unsolicited bendover treatment by a senior female employee somewhere..she had the audacity to bend-over a few feet from me and yenyewe macho hayana pasia,what can a man do ohh..this left little to the imagination...pic is edited to avoid a disaster..sometimes i understand and admire our Muslim women who have some sort of decency left in them,our Kenyan women wamepotea kabisa...is this fair really...I just had to snap the dumb *ss..Shame on you Shame on you


define that first, then we can give comments.
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Jus Blazin
#5 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 9:57:32 AM
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@nwamaina, like @ali, I'm also trying to get the correlation between salary and decency, or lack of, based on your argument. And why did you have to take a pic, if you have an issue with such indecency?
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nwamaina
#6 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 10:02:58 AM
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@Jus Blazin...you are quite correct thats the point..in theory there should be no correlation between a salary,source of income,etc and decency but unfortunately the breed am talking of thinks otherwise i.e. financial freedom negates the fact that decency is a virtue that should be practiced irrespective of ones financial status,thats what the few rotten tomatoes don't seem to understand,as for the pic am an avid paparazzi na hio ni exhibit tu..
Impunity
#7 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 11:18:40 AM
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So all indecently dressed mamas are earning more salos?
Nah.
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quicksand
#8 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 11:41:16 AM
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@nwamaina,...you are painting with a broad brush. It is difficult to support or criticize you, since only you know what you saw. Decency, or lack thereof depends on an individual's point of view. A man from Afghanistan might object to any dress whose hem does not touch the toes; Personally, I say they can walk naked if they want.
Wendz
#9 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 11:49:41 AM
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nwamaina wrote:
@Jus Blazin...you are quite correct thats the point..in theory there should be no correlation between a salary,source of income,etc and decency but unfortunately the breed am talking of thinks otherwise i.e. financial freedom negates the fact that decency is a virtue that should be practiced irrespective of ones financial status,thats what the few rotten tomatoes don't seem to understand,as for the pic am an avid paparazzi na hio ni exhibit tu..



Now, i hope by the highlighted part, you now agree that it was unfair to generalise about all women in your initial post?

Now, dont you think we will be justified to ask for an apology from you? Or at least, i am justified to?
butterflyke
#10 Posted : Tuesday, October 18, 2011 12:00:41 PM
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@ nwamaina, i agree with kingfisher...define what you mean by 'our women'....

your post speaks more of lack of objectivity on your side than it does the perceived lack of decency on your colleague's part. redemption is only in the fact that you mention that it is a 'few rotten tomatoes'....i am sure you would not want to be unjustifiably bundled in the same wagon as a few 'rotten potatoes'
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