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Acute Fear of driving vehicles
ali
#1 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 7:21:39 AM
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How can one overcome the phobia for driving? He/she has all the papers and skills. Bt due to an accident he had, he's never managed to drive on his own again. He does driving tests and instructors ask him why he is doing them coz he need no instructions. You give him keys and you sit next to him, he drives like any skilled driver. Bt alone, or his own car, never tried for several years now, esp nbi roads. How can he be helped?
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simonkabz
#2 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 7:25:32 AM
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Phobia.
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jamplu
#3 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 7:53:00 AM
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he should see a shrink.
Intelligentsia
#4 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 8:15:39 AM
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ali wrote:
How can one overcome the phobia for driving? He/she has all the papers and skills. Bt due to an accident he had, he's never managed to drive on his own again. He does driving tests and instructors ask him why he is doing them coz he need no instructions. You give him keys and you sit next to him, he drives like any skilled driver. Bt alone, or his own car, never tried for several years now, esp nbi roads. How can he be helped?


Mostly likley he was alone? He was mentally scarred, still traumatized by this accident, and the need for someone on the passenger seat indicates he needs constant reassurance. Needs to see a shrink as @ jamplu has pointed out to come to terms and put this accident behind him.
'user'
#5 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 8:24:02 AM
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what is a shrink?
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Jus Blazin
#6 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 8:30:48 AM
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'user' wrote:
what is a shrink?

You can always Google the word.
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Robinhood
#7 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 8:40:56 AM
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'user' wrote:
what is a shrink?


Dr Frank Njenga et al
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
famooz
#8 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 8:57:41 AM
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I think it is normal.........I think he is still traumatized from his accident and feels safer when there is someone else in the car. I have the same fear too partly because i had an accident and partly because i am just scared of driving. Actually right after the accident,i would be on the passenger seat and keep 'instructing' my bro what to do and pointing at all dangers on the road-real or imagined,i could see a dog crossing the road from very far away smile.
Needs Help well maybe maybe not? well i do not think so,i think it will go away slowly......the more the pressure,the more irritating it will get for him. Now i can drive.....at a very slow speed,short distance and mostly in the village smile smile
bwenyenye
#9 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 9:03:22 AM
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jamplu wrote:
he should see a shrink.


He does not need a shrink yet! He needs a counselling.
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ali
#10 Posted : Tuesday, October 04, 2011 9:31:29 AM
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Sad thing..he doesnt touch family car. 6yrs is a loong time not to have healed. True, he was alone when the accident happened.
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