@Kusadikika............A man is either happily married or faithful. In a majority of men,these two are mutually exclusive.............I DIDN'T KNOW THAT!!!!!

Just keep off your partners phone!!!! The chief value of money lies in the fact that one lives in a world in which it is overestimated.

@ Mukiha. Where are you? Give us your thoughts on this one.

@ luisa just to clarify this for you,its not your place to allow or disallow your spouse certain liaisons,though you have a right to express an opinion on whether you approve or disapprove of such relations. This is because the person concerned is an adult with no obligation to act on permission granted by you but should out of respect for the marriage institution give serious consideration to your views and if in disagreement let you know with reasons. This aside,that that the ex's details are saved incognito demonstrate ill intent. Your call is to decide what option you want to pursue,ignore,express disapproval and request for change from the spouse,pray and wait for divine intervention,believe the story about business and request from shareholding....... Bottomline,its really for you to decide on what works for you after weighing all the options. All the best,remember HIV bado iko!!